Hi. Im in the middle of a divorce dispute with my ex. I moved here to her home town about 8 years ago from the UK. We have two kids 15 and 7. I pay her child support and spousal support voluntarily without any written agreement in place as per both our earning last year. This has been ongoing for 18 months now. Mediation failed
My ex works part time for the city but is a qualified school teacher in ontario. She had some supply teaching experience and full time overseas experience but no full time in ontario.
If she were to work full time as a teacher in ontario I absolutely would not have to pay spousal support. She does not want to work full time as a teacher even tho there are many schools in the area looking for teachers.
Without overtime I make about 100k a year but in the past I have made upwards of 160k with overtime. I have not worked overtime for some time as it would mean I would miss out on the already limited time I have with my kids. This last two years I have made 140k. I have offered her 10 years of spousal support based on the calculation from the divorcemate App.
If she doesn't want to go back to teaching and I offer her to settle with 10 years based on 100k plus 30k of overtime. The App says the maximum duration is 13 years and the lump sum was calculated at 10 years.
Is it fair for her to demand i work more overtime while she insists on never teaching and remaining in a lesser paid job?
Is there a timeframe that can be applied to her getting into teaching?
Any advice is greatly appreciated
My ex works part time for the city but is a qualified school teacher in ontario. She had some supply teaching experience and full time overseas experience but no full time in ontario.
If she were to work full time as a teacher in ontario I absolutely would not have to pay spousal support. She does not want to work full time as a teacher even tho there are many schools in the area looking for teachers.
Without overtime I make about 100k a year but in the past I have made upwards of 160k with overtime. I have not worked overtime for some time as it would mean I would miss out on the already limited time I have with my kids. This last two years I have made 140k. I have offered her 10 years of spousal support based on the calculation from the divorcemate App.
If she doesn't want to go back to teaching and I offer her to settle with 10 years based on 100k plus 30k of overtime. The App says the maximum duration is 13 years and the lump sum was calculated at 10 years.
Is it fair for her to demand i work more overtime while she insists on never teaching and remaining in a lesser paid job?
Is there a timeframe that can be applied to her getting into teaching?
Any advice is greatly appreciated
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