trust me when I tell you there are lots of men out there that do not mind the baggage, and don't worry about trying to find one, he will appear when you least expect in the most unexpected place.
There are lots of us guys out there that have gotten the stort end of the stick and "have our own baggage too".... Despite all our bagage, life is too short to be bitter!!!! Hey we all have baggage ladies... it is not a deterent to love?!
I have also used Love Access and Match.com. I didn't care for Love Access. There seemed to be a lot of weird people on there. Match.com was ok. I still prefer Yahoo Personals the best.
I imagine theres alot of weird people on all the sites.
Match.com is the most famous, so i imagine would have the most 'normal' people since its sort of a household name now.