Served with a motion

[Leviathan]

It's a legal tactic, nothing more. The more they piss you off, the more likely you are to cave in to stupid demands just to make them go away. Put whatever they throw at you through the emotional filter, and look at it coldly and logically.

Thanks Rioe, the stbx has been through all this already with her ex husband (several years ago with the same lawyer) so her and her lawyer know what moves to make.

Unfortunately, I didn't pay close enough attention while they were doing this (I was with her at the time) and all I saw was the final outcome at the end.

My lawyer seems quite relaxed and patient, obviously seen all this before. I'm relatively new to these tactics!! And yes, they're aggravating!!