Separation agreement - How to get it right?

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Back somewhat on topic, not to be prickly, but if the child was sick and needed a babysitter for the day, is picking a new partner to help you any worse than asking the 12 year old neighbor to do it?

It's always worrisome to have someone new other than family look after the kids whether or not the kids are in your custody.

I'm not sure I'd accept an agreement that included such clauses, though basically my ex has demanded pretty much that information already anyways.
 
If a child is sick the first person you should ask is the other parent, full stop. If that parent can't attend, then both parents should offer suggestions about the caregiver most appropriate. I don't think the 12 year old next door is a good solution either, but your argument is like saying "Well, he was a better choice than Clifford Olson!"

The best situation for the child is for both parents to work together. If that's not happening then something is wrong.
 
Given the amount of hatred my ex seems to have she will never ask me for anything except to die in a fire. Doing anything that is remotely nice to me such as giving me extra time with my son is totally contrary to her nature. She doesn't even allow me to do make up time when I miss access because of HER plans.

Common sense like yours only applies to rational people. Thanks Mess :)
 
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