Hoping you can help. My husband was arrested for assault in February and spent 2 months in jail waiting to post bail as he required a surety. He was released in March and since there is a lot of his conditions...no direct or indirect contact...just one of many. The only way to communicate is via lawyers ($$$$$). Basically I have now spent $1000 on unanswered emails and the only response I have received has been a demand for the car (in my name took it, as advised by the detective involved) and his tools. Has anyone been in this situation? Did they find an alternative method of communication...like a mediator...less expensive option? He has also broken 2conditions of his release and I am debating reporting it and having him put back in jail until hearing (8 months to one year)...just worried it is going to delay everything further, even though we have not progressed at all in 6 months....no child support, I am in the family home paying all the bills, he consented to the sale of the home and the day he was to sign the listing he revoked consent and now given consent again....that whole game cost me another $600 in legal fees. I am assuming he is never going to sign any offer that comes in....just playing games. Any advice?