I am actually inquiring to see if someone might have some insight on a slight problem I have.
To say that I have had a long fight would actually be an understatement, however I am still fighting for my child as I believe that I am the more suitable parent.
In May of 2008 I attended a trial in which was fast-tracked due to a bi-lateral assessment in which was completed in which the dates of the completion of the assessment were going to see it void as it was almost a year old.
Subsequently, and this at the time we had 1.5 year old child, my ex was given the primary with the final decision with input from me. As a shot to me I was dragged back into court 5 months later and served with an application to leave Canada and move the the carribean for a year for a job that would pay her $17,000 u.s. a month. The job was a hoax but the paperwork was sufficient enough for the judge to allow it. In the end I consented to 12 months of access meaning, my child was to be returned to our area 10 times for at least one week to two weeks and I was to travel to the carribean twice, so in the low down neither parent would have to encompass spending more time than a 3 week period away from our child. This order commenced in February and was to conclude in February it encompassed every month.
It was stated on record my ex was to return in February but didnt and I was forced to travel to the carribean on short notice to see my daughter. In total because of the locale of where it was and being that it is not typically a child friendly place I paid just over $4,000 for the week.
I returned at the beginning of March and received notifcations from my ex that she would be returning at the end of the month as ordered. She did and she left my child and took off again.
What I was able to ascertain was, the job was in fact a hoax, in fact when I arrived there she had flown her boyfriend at the same time at the shelled off to Mexico.
She was instructed that if the job wasnt working she was to be on the first plane back but she divulged she never made a dime and sat there for 2 months.
Because of the amounts of money I put out do I have a case to go after her for the return to a portion if any. If I had known she was going to return I would not have incurred the cost. Or had a known the job was not working I certainly could have had her brought back.
I was never advised anything until she returned.
To say that I have had a long fight would actually be an understatement, however I am still fighting for my child as I believe that I am the more suitable parent.
In May of 2008 I attended a trial in which was fast-tracked due to a bi-lateral assessment in which was completed in which the dates of the completion of the assessment were going to see it void as it was almost a year old.
Subsequently, and this at the time we had 1.5 year old child, my ex was given the primary with the final decision with input from me. As a shot to me I was dragged back into court 5 months later and served with an application to leave Canada and move the the carribean for a year for a job that would pay her $17,000 u.s. a month. The job was a hoax but the paperwork was sufficient enough for the judge to allow it. In the end I consented to 12 months of access meaning, my child was to be returned to our area 10 times for at least one week to two weeks and I was to travel to the carribean twice, so in the low down neither parent would have to encompass spending more time than a 3 week period away from our child. This order commenced in February and was to conclude in February it encompassed every month.
It was stated on record my ex was to return in February but didnt and I was forced to travel to the carribean on short notice to see my daughter. In total because of the locale of where it was and being that it is not typically a child friendly place I paid just over $4,000 for the week.
I returned at the beginning of March and received notifcations from my ex that she would be returning at the end of the month as ordered. She did and she left my child and took off again.
What I was able to ascertain was, the job was in fact a hoax, in fact when I arrived there she had flown her boyfriend at the same time at the shelled off to Mexico.
She was instructed that if the job wasnt working she was to be on the first plane back but she divulged she never made a dime and sat there for 2 months.
Because of the amounts of money I put out do I have a case to go after her for the return to a portion if any. If I had known she was going to return I would not have incurred the cost. Or had a known the job was not working I certainly could have had her brought back.
I was never advised anything until she returned.