I understand it is difficult for you to understand the law. But without a custody order in place, the RCMP have no right to make a decision nor to restrain a parent.
And frankly, if one is going to plead that a false status quo created post-separation shouldn’t be relied on to create a permanent custody arrangement, then one certainly shouldn’t attempt to rely on a false status quo pre-separation to argue a permanent custody arrangement.
He had his visa application on-going with Australia, they had told their landlords they were renting short-term and refused to sign a one year lease, they had no permanent residence, neither had long-term employment positions (she had none), and neither had any intention of residing in Canada – all of their friends/family knew this 3-some was going to reside in Australia, as even further evidenced by their facebook postings to their friends in Australia. But, hey, maybe she gave him a blowjob.