Love and Theft
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I will try to keep this as concise as possible. It has been twelve years since my divorce. I am sixty-two years of age we lived together for sixteen years, married for five. The Separation Agreement itself, in my opinion, was never just or equitable. Like others, I signed it to get it over with. Nothing was really negotiated, and from the beginning it had the appearance that these would be ‘gifts’ or concessions made by my ex. If and it was a big one I would agree to all of the demands presented. One demand made was for five years of child support for our two daughters paid in advance. This of course was an impossibility for me. The solution given was to deduct that amount from my equity in the home. I resisted this on the grounds that this support would be non-existent as there would be no money coming in. I was agreeable however to monthly child support. The offer was refused. It was very apparent the scheme was to reduce my equity for my ex’s purchase in order to obtain possession and clear title. There were many other insidious aspects to the agreement which I will not detail but suffice to say after nearly two years I was worn out. During this time whilst living in my camper I was informed that I had lost over nine thousand dollars because the housing market had de-valued, although this was never proven. I was also told I was on the hook for a loan I had co-signed to build a store for my ex in the bottom section of the house which had since become a rental. I finally decided to just go to court. Broke and discouraged I then was informed by my attorney this could take another year and approximnately ten thousand dollars. Win or lose! I succumbed, and signed. In going over this ‘agreement’ recently, I examined the section on pensions. Much of it is taken up with details on how neither party will apply for a split of pensions regarding injuctions, etc. I should point out here my attorney was very negligent in explaining my rights in all of this and when asked about pensions made it appear it was a huge process involving actuaries and much expense. I was not aware and was not made aware the process is automatic upon application by either party. Back to the pension issue: one line confuses me. Leading up to this it states:
‘An application for division of Canada Pension or Employment Pension by either party shall be a breach of this Agreement entitling the other party to seek:
*****, if she should receive any monies and/or benefits from Canada Pension or Employment Pension, shall hold said monies and/or benefits in trust for ****** and shall:
a. be a trustee for ****** of any such benefits received by ****** under the pension plan; and
b. not do or omit to do any act to the prejudice of the interest of ******.
This line confuses me and I would not split hairs, nor am I trying to be vindictive however another attorney upon examining the agreement has said it is one of the most lopsided they have seen. The fact that so much of the entire agreement in my opinion was based on fraud and deception has lead me to ask for assistance with this aspect. I’m not clear on it but, as it stands, this line seems to contradict and possibly nullify the statements preceding. Leaving pension split in question? That is my hope. It is then my request from someone more knowledgeable to give their interpretation. In doing so, perhaps I can right some of the wrongs which I have had to live with. Because I do not have savings and I was treated unjustly. I only seek something more equitable. Thank you for your assistance.
‘An application for division of Canada Pension or Employment Pension by either party shall be a breach of this Agreement entitling the other party to seek:
- a permanent and interlocutory injunction to prevent the application from proceeding;
- damages in the amount, if any, by which Canada Pension or Employment Pension is in his or her favour is reduced as a result of the application for division; and
- the party applying for division shall indemnify the other for all legal costs and disbursement incurred to oppose the application for division.
*****, if she should receive any monies and/or benefits from Canada Pension or Employment Pension, shall hold said monies and/or benefits in trust for ****** and shall:
a. be a trustee for ****** of any such benefits received by ****** under the pension plan; and
b. not do or omit to do any act to the prejudice of the interest of ******.
This line confuses me and I would not split hairs, nor am I trying to be vindictive however another attorney upon examining the agreement has said it is one of the most lopsided they have seen. The fact that so much of the entire agreement in my opinion was based on fraud and deception has lead me to ask for assistance with this aspect. I’m not clear on it but, as it stands, this line seems to contradict and possibly nullify the statements preceding. Leaving pension split in question? That is my hope. It is then my request from someone more knowledgeable to give their interpretation. In doing so, perhaps I can right some of the wrongs which I have had to live with. Because I do not have savings and I was treated unjustly. I only seek something more equitable. Thank you for your assistance.