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Did I not say shes untrustworthy? Shes playing a pretty good game. If kid is in school then mom should be around. Might want to just sit down the block or something.
 
Leave a copy in her box, use a process server, send it to her by registered mail, email it to her, send it to her facebook account as an attachment.

The best idea I was given by a former process server is to have someone she doesn't know show up at her door with a pizza (documents underneath) and when she opens the door to say she didn't order pizza, hand her the documents. If she refuses to take them, they are allowed to drop it at her feet!

Her stalling will bite her in the butt and give the judge a good idea of how she operates.

Attend the first court appearance date and if she doesn't show up get permission from the judge to file any materials electronically so this B.S. stops now!!
 
What a game. Leave it in my mailbox. Let's see what her intentions are

He could put it in my mailbox and I could claim I never got it or that it was improper service

He could serve me and I could complain he doesn't trust me and wouldn't leave it in the mail. And he went to court when I wanted to resolve this civilly.
Or

She just wants to keep buying time.

Hmm. I think I would hire a process server. If that proves to be difficult then you can ask the judge for permission for alternative service.




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Well, today's the day my ex said she'd give a reply by for avoiding any unnecessary court.

The exchange was awkward as hell after she got the materials. We didn't even speak to each to each other or say bye.

It's almost noon and still nothing. I'm so curious what she will say.
 
She has until midnight man! Quit rushing her!!

All joking aside, she probably wont say anything and just respond to your filing. Unless she decides that she will reject the filing since it was done "improperly" even though she avoided being served.

All of her behaviours (including the psychological crap with d5) are huge indicators of her intentions--> no desire to work or pay off set!
 
As stated by Justice Pazaratz in Jackson v. Mayerle, 2016 ONSC 72 (CanLII), at para. 715:

“Parents are required to act responsibly when making financial decisions that may affect the level of child support available. They must not arrange their financial affairs so as to prefer their own interests over those of their children”.
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So true. I don't think it will look to good on her to say she'll get back to me on this date and not do it.
 
Delay delay delay..

Here's what ex responded:

I just wanted to let you know that I underestimated the amount of time I would need to get all the necessary information I need to make my final decision. As soon as I get all my info I will make sure to get back to you so that we can discuss where we go from here.

Thanks.
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Crazy.
 
arabian said:
did he serve her?
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Yea .. I had someone do it, but not in good way (mailbox). She kept avoiding it and then sent a text saying to put it in her mailbox.

I still haven't had 2 seconds to run to court and get the affidavit of service and originals filed .. will have to do that this week.

So what is it that she needs to do to "cover all bases"? What info does she need to seek? (How to find a job?) She's lawyering up again? Surely this wait time is just her seeing what all her eligibilities for free services are again.
 
Her response makes no sense whatsoever. Another delay tactic or shes waiting to see if she can get another legal aid certificate. Nothing in her response or behaviour demonstrates her willingness to settle this outside of court. You need to stop waiting for her to play nice or read into her statements and just prepare yourself for court. What little time you have you should be using to do research and prep how you will approach this.
 
Interestingly, ex sent me a text today saying she has a job interview on Wednesday night at 4:30pm.

I'm so happy that I got this going. My materials shook her a bit I guess. Hopefully no court will be required.
 
She has likely got a job a ways away from where you live. She will say "well you want me to work so you can pay less"...... well I certainly got a job.

There is no winning this!
 
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