Overnight access possible motion .

[youngdad91]

Child is reportedly breast fed in evenings and 2-3 hours every night .

You sure she's not spending those 3 hours every day to prepare for trial ?

Joke aside....Seek gradual increase to 50/50.

 

[JimmyJames]

Add breastfeeding to your search on canlii, there are quite a few cases of kids under 1.5 and with overnights.
She was 9 months in the case you quoted.

If your lawyer is telling you to wait, unless for reasons we don't know about, I would get a new lawyer who will fight for you. I couldn't imagine being able to watch my child walk around the block while talking with me, but not be able to have him stay passed the street lights.

Lawyer is not telling me to wait , I'm cautiously optimistic and doing my homework .

 

[JimmyJames]

Family court is slow... moves like a snail. By the time this gets to the conference stage the kid will be in kindergarten no?

Keep this in mind while you consider further litigation (which is costly). I'd recommend continued patient, but firm, requests. With that said, do keep concise written communication and records of your requests.

I agree it's a shame that, after separation and immaturity that often goes along with it, parents can't agree on these things. Parenting agreement should be discussed. Some people hire professionals to help in this.

Thanks , already been down that road since birth . Started with hardly anything , was patient and now have access four days a week daytime through counsel .

Case conference already happened , now open for motions and settlemt conference should I chose either route .

 

[arabian]

Good for you (increased access). All the best to you.

 

[JimmyJames]

Good for you (increased access). All the best to you.

Thank you , and also thank you to everyone who chimed in .

 

[JimmyJames]

My takeaway from this is to keep the pressure and focus on the down the road plan and not right now (even though mother refuses to mediate ) you've opened my eyes to the fact that I can still seek out that professional and still do so on my own to come up with a professional concrete plan that can be very useful .

Thank you everyone for this insight .