Same thing applies to lawyer reviews.
And Mechanics, and just about any other business where the customer was not happy, or just a pain who likes to complain for no good reason other than a size 7 foot up their ass.
My lawyer does have a couple of bad reviews. I knew they were bogus in after meeting with him. I didn't even mention them to him. They are usually aware of the reviews that are out there about them. After several months of retainer, I've confirmed they were bogus. The lawyer wasn't one to just act all good off the get go then fall of a cliff 2 months down the retainer. The judges impressions with the lawyer are far more positive than the impressions with the last lawyer I had. Whenever something pops up, it always works out in a satisfactory resolution with this lawyer. Your lawyer's reputation can easily be seen in seeing how the judges speak to them, how other lawyers interact with them, and how paranoid and anxious your ex gets
There are however more good reviews than bad reviews. The good reviews seem to be more accurate.
Positive reviews are usually exaggerated. Oh yeah I love this guy, I'm going to give him all 10's and say he's the best lawyer in the whole world.
It makes it hard to not hire a lawyer who has 67 positive reviews and everyone is happy with him.
You might find people complaining about the lawyer not returning emails, but you notice the lawyer returns emails on evenings, weekends, etc.
You might find people complaining about the lawyer not returning phone calls, but you notice the lawyer answers phone calls personally and even gives you his cell phone, and allows you to text them, and they text you back- free of charge.
I've had lawyers that were just aweful with emails and phone calls, and refused to give out cell phones, and a complete dirt bag, just wasting your time and money, while I have a lawyer who offers their cell, and who has become a very good friend of mine. I think it all comes down to the relationship you have with the lawyer.
As per whether the lawyer is good or not, your best bet is to ask around and see what his reputation is like. Court staff and espcially mental health professions who have been cross-examined by these lawyers could give your good word of mouth. Be careful to not fall in a "good old boy" network though. You could see what other lawyers have to say about them, etc. You could also search their posted cases on canlii, and maybe even attend at court when they have matters to see them in action.
At the end of the day, the facts of your case are what will prevail, not how good your lawyer is. That being said, you don't want a flimsy lawyer. Having a good lawyer to properly represent the facts and poke holes in opposing testimony definitely helps, but don't expect a very good lawyer to win a merit-less case.
When you meet with your lawyer, it should be a 2 way street, he wants to see if he will take you as a client and you want to see if you will hire him as your lawyer. Trust yourself and go with your gut instincts.
Worst comes to worst, you fire him and hire another one. Company's hire bad employees all the time. They usually have a probation period. Treat your lawyer the same way. Give him a 3 month probation period. Family Law Lawyer's are dime a dozen. Don't dread over it.
Don't believe everything you read on the internet.