My story. Well some of it.

[billiechic]

And it's not 95% of the time that mothers get custody, it's 80% and falling.

What pisses me off about people like you and DTTE and Billiechic, is you can't read. You jump to conclusions, and you can't or won't have a proper debate, because when I, or others have made a point, you just toss insults, instead of having a proper rebuttal.

How childish.

Hello POT!

I didn't argue with the 80%. In fact, my OCL assessor stated that number to me himself, so why would I argue?

I haven't jumped to conclusions. I did once, and I apologised. Have you forgotten that? I have not tossed insults. I backed out of this debate (again, noted previously by YOU) and was willing to let it go until you started a pissing match.

I don't think DTTE would be insulted if I agreed that he can be a bully at times. BUT, you however are bullying me now by making accusations that are untrue and slanderous.

Goodbye POT!

 

[billiechic]

Billichic
And what do you think you have been doing to me? You are a hypocrite.

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And what point would that be? PROVE IT!

 

[billiechic]

You're wasting your time, they like him because he is one of the very few fathers on here that thinks that the system is not biased against fathers lol. So they love him for it, in fact DDTE calls us fathers that blame or suggest that the family law system is biased, as whiners. But he is somewhat right it's not just the system it's the the mothers (not all of course) out there that are quite willing to abuse and take advantage of that system as well.

Being a mother, I don't see how his success in family law has ANY RELEVANCE to me, Actually, I appreciate his honest, no-holds-barred answers. Yeah, he can be rude sometimes, but for the most part his advice is helpful. LF or RWM are also able to provide the same level of advice, and have. My "liking" a poster is not the issue here.

MY ISSUE is with the insinuation of a fight and the childishness of that. Please explain how RWM is justified in those comments, and how anyone else on this forum is supposed to interpret his intention?

Oh, and LF, if you are going to continue about "mothers who take advantage", I suggest you look at the male gender as well. It is not one sex over the other abusing the system. For every controlling mother there is out there, there is a deadbeat dad. Shame on you for thinking that way

 

[billiechic]

No, but if you cared to read the previous exchanges, you would understand the comment.

I tried to, but someone must have complained about my post, saying it was offensive or something and it has been removed. Too bad it wasn't. Should we all start complainging about your posts now? They are definitely more offensive that anything I've posted on here...

Anyone else have an opinion?

 

[mrsb]

You are very correct Billiechic, There are just as many men abusing the systems as there are women.

RWM, I think I have said this to you before but you push your opinions on to EVERYONE. You do offer lots of great advice, you should leave it at that, that is what I thought this site was about. EVERYONE gets it, your angry and very bitter.

Your comment about Canada offends me greatly. I am so happy you no longer serve. You claim to be ex-military so it is fair to assume you know what the term "shitpump" means? Is this why you no longer serve?

Take you hatred elsewhere. So you don't like another member (DTTE), then don't engage with him. Same advice I give my children when they fight. Go open a blog, talk to friend, see a therapist etc, but stop your sexist attitude here. Everyone who comes to this site is seeking advice and healing, not hatred.

 

[dadtotheend]

You're wasting your time, they like him because he is one of the very few fathers on here that thinks that the system is not biased against fathers lol.

In this link there are no less than 10 posts where I have acknowledged the existence of gender bias.

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