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Reread the exchange. I offered peace but was insulted and he implied a different kind of get together. But by all means read into it what you wish.
 
billiechic said:
I did read the other exchanges. They were heated, but YOU actually called DTTE out! You were implying that the two of you should use fists to solve your dispute. That is what I am referring to. Extremely childish!
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Actually I think it was me that made that inference in a round about way lol.
 
billiechic said:
Care to defend yourself now?
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Easily. You must have missed this reply:

As to meeting in person, it would end in one of two ways, we either find we are not so different, or we end up seeing we are opposite sides of the spectrum. One we end up going for beers, the other we agree to disagree.

Look the guy has acted like a bully to many on the forum, and has been called for it. He has lots of good advice, and I have even complimented him for that.

Others have noticed he is occasionally rude:

"I think ddte is a little reluctant to join the pity party. Maybe he just doesn't always say things is the most diplomatic way."

It seems anytime DTTE says something, you got to go and back him up on it. Maybe you should read the whole conversation before you jump on DTTE's coat tails. Some times he is just out of line.

There are lots of issues that DTTE has no experience with. Just because he has not had as much bad shit happen to him, does not mean that it does not happen in our fucked up court system. Just look around the forum, there are many people who have been treated very unfairly in court.

Our courts are biased in favor of women. DTTE has proven my point about custody awards. So from that I have a difficult time understanding why some like him, and you have to jump all over others who say anything about the inherent bias in the courts. Perhaps you will understand when your son gets screwed by a biased judge. Maybe then you will understand why I stand up for a change to our biased courts.
 
Actually, it was you who caused me to form this negative opinion of you way back when you first started spouting negative comments about women, and you have said little since then to change my opinion. I happen to agree with DTTE and that is because he is often right. I have even called him out a few times when he went over the top. But given that you like to dish out the same crap that he does, at this point in time, it's you I am pointing out.

FWIW I didn't jump on anything to do with a bias in the courts, I jumped on you calling out someone like a 12 year old would. I don't care what your response was after you called him out was, the fact is that you did it.
In the time I have been on this forum, I have never read about anyone else wanting to start a fight with another member...how is that you are so lucky to be the first???
 
You really missed it here.

I may have been a bit harsh when I started here, and I toned it down. Too bad you haven't gotten over that and moved on. You have been on my case on nearly every post as well, often just to back up DTTE. Just grow up.

I dish it out to DTTE because he has been over the top on nearly everything I have posted. He has been like a true school yard bully, and has been called on it.

I did not threaten him with violence as you claim, and you can't see that because you just have this opinion of me.

Besides didn't you claim in another topic that you were done with me? Actually your quote is:
DONE and DONE!

So either get over your prejudice, or leave me alone. Like I said debate is fine, but I don't need the insults and constantly questioning my standards. I have custody of my kids for a reason, and I am a very small minority of men who get this. My ex is not a bad parent, she is just a bitch to me, and it harms the kids.

What ever happened to your issues you had about serving my country? You claimed that I don't have any ability to respect other religious ideals, and since my reply you dropped that issue, but now take aim at me inviting DTTE for a beer?

Really now. Get over it.
 
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billiechic said:
Actually, it was you who caused me to form this negative opinion of you way back when you first started spouting negative comments about women, and you have said little since then to change my opinion.
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"When people show you who they really are, believe them the first time" —Maya Angelou

AKA: why first impressions are so important.


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And another parrot.

I saw there have been some who have made complaints to the moderator about you blink. Really gives me an impression of what kind of a person you are.
 
billiechic said:
Actually, it was you who caused me to form this negative opinion of you way back when you first started spouting negative comments about women, and you have said little since then to change my opinion. I happen to agree with DTTE and that is because he is often right. I have even called him out a few times when he went over the top. But given that you like to dish out the same crap that he does, at this point in time, it's you I am pointing out.

FWIW I didn't jump on anything to do with a bias in the courts, I jumped on you calling out someone like a 12 year old would. I don't care what your response was after you called him out was, the fact is that you did it.
In the time I have been on this forum, I have never read about anyone else wanting to start a fight with another member...how is that you are so lucky to be the first???
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blinkandimgone said:
"When people show you who they really are, believe them the first time" —Maya Angelou

AKA: why first impressions are so important.


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Let it go ladies. You can't win with this guy.
 
rwm1273 said:
You really missed it here.

I may have been a bit harsh when I started here, and I toned it down. Too bad you haven't gotten over that and moved on. You have been on my case on nearly every post as well, often just to back up DTTE. Just grow up.

I dish it out to DTTE because he has been over the top on nearly everything I have posted. He has been like a true school yard bully, and has been called on it.

I did not threaten him with violence as you claim, and you can't see that because you just have this opinion of me.

Besides didn't you claim in another topic that you were done with me? Actually your quote is:
DONE and DONE!

So either get over your prejudice, or leave me alone. Like I said debate is fine, but I don't need the insults and constantly questioning my standards. I have custody of my kids for a reason, and I am a very small minority of men who get this. My ex is not a bad parent, she is just a bitch to me, and it harms the kids.

What ever happened to your issues you had about serving my country? You claimed that I don't have any ability to respect other religious ideals, and since my reply you dropped that issue, but now take aim at me inviting DTTE for a beer?

Really now. Get over it.
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Can I offer some advice, BLOCK HIM then and you won't have this problem.

How about you just ignore the comments, I have been avoiding this for weeks.... but

DTTE doesn't offer advice on something he doesn't know or is unsure about. And on the things he is solid about has tremendously helped.

I just wish all this non sense would stop! DTTE was also in your shoes, fighting the same battle, yes he won. He fought for what he believed in and stayed focus on that path. You don't see him bashing females, saying the courts always favor the mother etc. And for that, I have respect for him.... He sees the system flawed to those parents who have to fight to keep in line what is in the best interests of the children,,,, and not the parent!
 
There are several posts where I credited and agreed with your viewpoint. As you have noted yourself, I let your comments go about religious freedoms, as you have a right to your opinions, regardless of whether I agree with them. I am not biased against you, it's just that you keep acting like you are better than everyone else, more informed, and can't ever be wrong. I take offense to anyone acting so imature as you have done.

I am not replying to your posts in defense of DTTE or anyone else, rather I am pointing out what an immature child you are by 1. insinuating you want to kick someone's ass and 2. assuming that all of "parrots" are wrong about you. I call it as I see it.

FWIW, I enjoy a good tete-a-tete, so no worries.
 
Blink why don't you take your advice?

I toned down what I think of our feminist biased family law system. It only enables unreasonable people to continue to abuse our courts.

People like you don't realize how biased the courts can be because you are the prefered sex in the courts. DTTE proved what I say by confirming that:

And it's not 95% of the time that mothers get custody, it's 80% and falling.

So you won't understand what I have had to live through, because you would never have to live through it. What pisses me off about people like you and DTTE and Billiechic, is you can't read. You jump to conclusions, and you can't or won't have a proper debate, because when I, or others have made a point, you just toss insults, instead of having a proper rebuttal.

How childish.
 
billiechic said:
Actually, it was you who caused me to form this negative opinion of you way back when you first started spouting negative comments about women, and you have said little since then to change my opinion. I happen to agree with DTTE and that is because he is often right. I have even called him out a few times when he went over the top. But given that you like to dish out the same crap that he does, at this point in time, it's you I am pointing out.

FWIW I didn't jump on anything to do with a bias in the courts, I jumped on you calling out someone like a 12 year old would. I don't care what your response was after you called him out was, the fact is that you did it.
In the time I have been on this forum, I have never read about anyone else wanting to start a fight with another member...how is that you are so lucky to be the first???
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He is often a bully on here and to quote "Get the hell out of Dodge jackass. And fuck you very much." You seem to have no problem and defend him. These are not isolated incidents and comments like these are all over this board and you know it. I facilitate courses on Harassment Awareness, and bullies is a big topic, he IS a bully and he needs to do this to get his point across at times, plain and simple.
 
rwm1273 said:
Blink why don't you take your advice?

I toned down what I think of our feminist biased family law system. It only enables unreasonable people to continue to abuse our courts.

People like you don't realize how biased the courts can be because you are the prefered sex in the courts. DTTE proved what I say by confirming that:

And it's not 95% of the time that mothers get custody, it's 80% and falling.

So you won't understand what I have had to live through, because you would never have to live through it. What pisses me off about people like you and DTTE and Billiechic, is you can't read. You jump to conclusions, and you can't or won't have a proper debate, because when I, or others have made a point, you just toss insults, instead of having a proper rebuttal.

How childish.
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You're wasting your time, they like him because he is one of the very few fathers on here that thinks that the system is not biased against fathers lol. So they love him for it, in fact DDTE calls us fathers that blame or suggest that the family law system is biased, as whiners. But he is somewhat right it's not just the system it's the the mothers (not all of course) out there that are quite willing to abuse and take advantage of that system as well.
 
You are so right. What pisses me of is they don't care what I have written, just care how they can twist what ever I have said into something to find fault.

It really is pathetic.

I would like to know what Billichic thinks about my reply about my religious tolerance. She claims I am the one who is not tolerant of other beliefs, but once I posted my reply, she finds another area to try to insult. Typical that once they get a reply they can't argue, they find something else, just like a school kid.

Maybe I should just reply with "I know you are but what am I."
 
LostFather said:
Originally Posted by rwm1273
Blink why don't you take your advice?

I toned down what I think of our feminist biased family law system. It only enables unreasonable people to continue to abuse our courts.

People like you don't realize how biased the courts can be because you are the prefered sex in the courts. DTTE proved what I say by confirming that:

And it's not 95% of the time that mothers get custody, it's 80% and falling.

So you won't understand what I have had to live through, because you would never have to live through it. What pisses me off about people like you and DTTE and Billiechic, is you can't read. You jump to conclusions, and you can't or won't have a proper debate, because when I, or others have made a point, you just toss insults, instead of having a proper rebuttal.

How childish.
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You're wasting your time, they like him because he is one of the very few fathers on here that thinks that the system is not biased against fathers lol. So they love him for it, in fact DDTE calls us fathers that blame or suggest that the family law system is biased, as whiners. But he is somewhat right it's not just the system it's the the mothers (not all of course) out there that are quite willing to abuse and take advantage of that system as well.
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And what advice would that be since I didn't offer any? Oh wait, don't bother since I can't see it anyways. :) "People like me"? Yet more proof that you do indeed post in a way that is offensive and stereotypical. Anyways. I have no interest in 'debating' with you because you've proven over and over again what a pig you are, thus the choice to ignore your posts. The only time I see any of them is when other people quote them. Either way, you're a pig.

LF, that's rather presumptuous of you to assume mine or any one else's reasons for 'liking' someone. Perhaps it has more to do with having an open mind, an understanding that not all men, women, parents or children fit into one mould and should be painted with the same brush, a willingness and interest in helping others. Or it could be that I find him really f-ing funny.
 
LostFather said:
He is often a bully on here and to quote "Get the hell out of Dodge jackass. And fuck you very much." You seem to have no problem and defend him. These are not isolated incidents and comments like these are all over this board and you know it. I facilitate courses on Harassment Awareness, and bullies is a big topic, he IS a bully and he needs to do this to get his point across at times, plain and simple.
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I didn't say he wasn't a bully, I said I often agree with his opinion, not his delivery.

And I have not yet insulted ANYONE on this board, thank-you very much!
 
Billichic
And what do you think you have been doing to me? You are a hypocrite.

I didn't say DTTE is always a bully. But thank you for proving my point.
 
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