dadtotheend
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I posted mine.
My god I need help
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billiechic
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Which one, the golf ball or the hazard sign?
tugofwar
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dadtotheend
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Its in the private areaarea aare
blinkandimgone
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Funny, we just all had Norwalk too and none of us got beligerant, self absorbed or delirious. I can certainly attest to the affects of it however would never force others to hear or read about it.
Anxiety and depression are illnesses...just like norwalk, strep throat or cancer. You would seek medical attention for a physical illness like those, you really need to seek help for the mental illness portion as well.
Your anxiety levels in your posts here are creating a very tense atmosphere with the other posters. I can only imagine how it is affecting your children to feel it in person. Get. Help.
Anxiety and depression are illnesses...just like norwalk, strep throat or cancer. You would seek medical attention for a physical illness like those, you really need to seek help for the mental illness portion as well.
Your anxiety levels in your posts here are creating a very tense atmosphere with the other posters. I can only imagine how it is affecting your children to feel it in person. Get. Help.
Ok ...do I deserve some lashing back ...sure I do , But I have apologized , and takin some unprovoked verbal beatings. So I am going to try and stay calm here and just address the personal attacks ...first of all I would like it if you keep my children out of this, second I am pretty sure anger is very normal when these sort of conversations take place , did I approach it wrong ....hell ya , but from what I can tell some of you guys have been here a long long long time and seem to have somewhat taken ownership of this forum , instead of moving on.
Blinkandimgone, Bite me , I was simply trying to convey how bad i felt for saying the things I said to a few of the posters in here. Kind of regretting that now , but whatever . There has been some great conversations in these forums and yes I have read pretty much all of them.
I am not going to sit back and let a bunch of nobodys insult me or have a bunch of people who dont know me sit and talk like they do. So if you have nothing productive to say then back off as i could care less what you have to say, it seems you all have no problems slinging shit , so like I said I apologized for saying things that offended some and if that is not good enough by all means dont post to any questions I may have or be a bigger person and accept peoples mistakes and move on.
Blinkandimgone, Bite me , I was simply trying to convey how bad i felt for saying the things I said to a few of the posters in here. Kind of regretting that now , but whatever . There has been some great conversations in these forums and yes I have read pretty much all of them.
I am not going to sit back and let a bunch of nobodys insult me or have a bunch of people who dont know me sit and talk like they do. So if you have nothing productive to say then back off as i could care less what you have to say, it seems you all have no problems slinging shit , so like I said I apologized for saying things that offended some and if that is not good enough by all means dont post to any questions I may have or be a bigger person and accept peoples mistakes and move on.
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So you must be the resident doctor in the group, you can tell from a few posts whats wrong with someone...could never be that they were just angry...nah he must be insane , you are a joke and I didnt ask for you opinion so do me a favor and shut your pie whole. It apears I will not get a fair shake here so do what you need to do , but for future people that will come to this forum , tread lightly as these know it all will humiliate you any chance they get and why?
I will end with this , thank you for your help Tugofwar and mess and dadtotheend , threw reading your ...other posts to other people I did gain some incite into what I should be trying to do and trust me I am, as for the personal attacks go nuts , I have an ex who does know me and can hurt me just fine and can do it much better .
I will end with this , thank you for your help Tugofwar and mess and dadtotheend , threw reading your ...other posts to other people I did gain some incite into what I should be trying to do and trust me I am, as for the personal attacks go nuts , I have an ex who does know me and can hurt me just fine and can do it much better .
dadtotheend
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Nice attempt staying calm. You lasted about two sentences.
Try reading some other threads where you will see that lots of folks ask for advice in a rational manner and receive it constructively.
As for moving on, well we like to give back so people can navigate through the minefield of family law without having to pay $400/hr for every strategic move.
Since you were unable to say thanks without adding several vitriolic comments, I will say to you, your welcome - and f*** you very much.
Dude ...I am sorry , I am just very passionate about my kids, I hope you understand. Please dont think im missing the ex, my god man I don't, but I do miss having my kids. I am going to buy the books and read them , trust me it wont take long as you know I dont sleep. But look just wanted to thank you for even responding and trying to help.
Now I dont know what fing planet you are from but that is the private msg I sent to you ...Im not sure what your taking from that? To me it is an apoligy and for the life of me I can not figure out why you take offence to that , so your response to this is to then come back and insult me some more???? fuk you,
I have obviously stated several times you do know what your talking about so I wont take that from you ...but you have zero people skills , nada none, so Im guessing you want a medal for already have gone threw what some of us are just getting into . So if it makes you feel better ...YOU ARE THE BEST!
Now I dont know what fing planet you are from but that is the private msg I sent to you ...Im not sure what your taking from that? To me it is an apoligy and for the life of me I can not figure out why you take offence to that , so your response to this is to then come back and insult me some more???? fuk you,
I have obviously stated several times you do know what your talking about so I wont take that from you ...but you have zero people skills , nada none, so Im guessing you want a medal for already have gone threw what some of us are just getting into . So if it makes you feel better ...YOU ARE THE BEST!
tugofwar
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Ok this has got to stop, back and forth abusing each other. Tim, you came on here for a good reason, its about your children and are very passionate about them so stay focused on them and not what others are saying. You don't need to continue adding fuel to the fire. You need to cool down. I was the one who told him to appologize as I know how helpful this site is and wanted to continue helping Tim. Keep it about the kids, ask questions. You will not get sympathy from this site as I learned quickly. If you want to continue here then keep it about the kids. No need for swearing etc. It's not helping anyone!!!!!
As for everyone else, ease up. There's no reason to keep going on and on.
Just let it be. We have all been there especially at the beginning where the best of us was lost somewhere.
But this has got to stop.
As for everyone else, ease up. There's no reason to keep going on and on.
Just let it be. We have all been there especially at the beginning where the best of us was lost somewhere.
But this has got to stop.
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Now as tug says stay focused ...I have a question ...My son has just turned one in Jan, so as I have been told status quo is very important in custody battles , but my question is this , she was breast feeding for the 1st 6 months and was unable to pump enough for me to have my son for any long periods of time , is there and argument there in regards to status quo?
dadtotheend
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FINALLY, a reasonable question. Praise the Lord. It only took 115 posts.
billiechic
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Just move on Tim. Ignore the sarcasm and FOCUS! DTTE is our resident devil's advocate, but his opinions and ideas are integral to your moving on.
If you aren't ready to listen to his advice, don't. Hopefully one day your outlook will be more open and you will realize that you need to think about your situation from all angles. Then you will realize how important his posts are. But for now, ask your questions, listen to the answers an stop attacking others.
If you aren't ready to listen to his advice, don't. Hopefully one day your outlook will be more open and you will realize that you need to think about your situation from all angles. Then you will realize how important his posts are. But for now, ask your questions, listen to the answers an stop attacking others.
billiechic
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You need to give us details about how your time is structured with your child, what the parenting history was/is etc. I am not going back and reading 100 posts, so I suggest you start a new thread and begin again. Keep things simple, give the details we need and ask questions.
If you put the past 100 posts behind you the rest of us will too. You are not the first person to come here and get lashed and you won't be the last. Hey, maybe one day you will be the one giving a new person the reality check.
If you put the past 100 posts behind you the rest of us will too. You are not the first person to come here and get lashed and you won't be the last. Hey, maybe one day you will be the one giving a new person the reality check.
sounds good to me as of the 117 I have asked 2 questions , the rest has been a pissing contest and its ridiculous.
Ok tis the standard on again off again relationship, been 3 yrs , we do own a home both on title , she had a child 6 months old when we got together , I have fathered her since then, she is 3 now and love her like my own. So please understand when I say "my kids" she is considered my kid.
She left the home with the child 10 months into the relationship, but we continued to carry on the relationship. Now we have since had a baby who is now 1 yr old. I do spend every weekend with my kids unless she is having a bad day and decides to not allow me to , keep in mind they used to come to my home . Now she has her own place she has made it very clear I need to come there if I want to see the kids. I agreed to this as her place is set up for the kids , But understand she is doing that to carry on the relationship.
When she first left she was staying at her fathers house, and she used to come to the home throughout the week with our daughter and every weekend and for the first 6 months of having our son. So truly its only been 6 months of her in her new place that I have been going there on weekends and sometimes during the week.
I dont know if any of this makes any seance?
Ok tis the standard on again off again relationship, been 3 yrs , we do own a home both on title , she had a child 6 months old when we got together , I have fathered her since then, she is 3 now and love her like my own. So please understand when I say "my kids" she is considered my kid.
She left the home with the child 10 months into the relationship, but we continued to carry on the relationship. Now we have since had a baby who is now 1 yr old. I do spend every weekend with my kids unless she is having a bad day and decides to not allow me to , keep in mind they used to come to my home . Now she has her own place she has made it very clear I need to come there if I want to see the kids. I agreed to this as her place is set up for the kids , But understand she is doing that to carry on the relationship.
When she first left she was staying at her fathers house, and she used to come to the home throughout the week with our daughter and every weekend and for the first 6 months of having our son. So truly its only been 6 months of her in her new place that I have been going there on weekends and sometimes during the week.
I dont know if any of this makes any seance?
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