Back again. I thought I'd be done this after the trial/final order.
History:
- Daughter age 22 and son age 19 reside with Ex.
- Daughter attends university away from home
- Son attends college and live with mother
- Trial in 2011 established appropriate S7 guidelines and GL table amount for CS (Final order Feb 2012)
- FRO is garnishing directly from payroll
Ex has not filed any expenses since Sept 2011 (She has a history trying to file them all at once to try to hurt me...wish I kept the text message)
Ex sent me tuition and book receipts for classes taken in summer of 2012 and now for the 2012/13 starting last September. She has yet to submit receipts to the Family Responsibility Office. I did not pay FRO immediately.
In November 2012, I found out that both my kids have received OSAP loans. As per final order, Ex is supposed to notify me of this. When I demanded the OSAP information as per the final order, Ex emailed them to me and emphasizes that it doesn't change anything since the children would have to pay it back. After reviewing the attachments, it was evident why the Ex didn't want me to know about it. They had both received a significant amount of grants along with loans. Without this knowledge, I could have paid my portion and the grants could completely paid the remainder of tuition and maybe even the books.
I contacted FRO and case worker and was told that if was not specifically stated in the final order, then they would not necessarily be able to enforce the application of the grants toward post-secondary expenses. We all know bursaries and grants get applied first, but...
Anyhow, I paid FRO directly for my portion of all expenses with grants applied first.
Also, Ex believes cars for both kids to go to school is a justified expense even though they both NOW live less than a 5 minute walk to take a direct bus to their institutions where the ride is under 30 minutes (Ex moved close to son's college and daughter moved out of town near university). NOTE: Trial noted that it was valid when my daughter lived at home and public transportation was not available. Son was not attending post-sec at the time.
And my Ex won't supply me with tuition tax receipts (kids pay 30%, I pay 46.2% and Ex pays 23.8%).
Ex is always late providing me with disclosure as per final order.
Ex will not consent to ANY changes proposed.
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Given all this, is there enough small change(s) in circumstance for a Motion to Change Final Order or Vary? (which one)
I need the final order to be clear otherwise FRO collects first and no courts will give it back.
Thanks
=D
History:
- Daughter age 22 and son age 19 reside with Ex.
- Daughter attends university away from home
- Son attends college and live with mother
- Trial in 2011 established appropriate S7 guidelines and GL table amount for CS (Final order Feb 2012)
- FRO is garnishing directly from payroll
Ex has not filed any expenses since Sept 2011 (She has a history trying to file them all at once to try to hurt me...wish I kept the text message)
Ex sent me tuition and book receipts for classes taken in summer of 2012 and now for the 2012/13 starting last September. She has yet to submit receipts to the Family Responsibility Office. I did not pay FRO immediately.
In November 2012, I found out that both my kids have received OSAP loans. As per final order, Ex is supposed to notify me of this. When I demanded the OSAP information as per the final order, Ex emailed them to me and emphasizes that it doesn't change anything since the children would have to pay it back. After reviewing the attachments, it was evident why the Ex didn't want me to know about it. They had both received a significant amount of grants along with loans. Without this knowledge, I could have paid my portion and the grants could completely paid the remainder of tuition and maybe even the books.
I contacted FRO and case worker and was told that if was not specifically stated in the final order, then they would not necessarily be able to enforce the application of the grants toward post-secondary expenses. We all know bursaries and grants get applied first, but...
Anyhow, I paid FRO directly for my portion of all expenses with grants applied first.
Also, Ex believes cars for both kids to go to school is a justified expense even though they both NOW live less than a 5 minute walk to take a direct bus to their institutions where the ride is under 30 minutes (Ex moved close to son's college and daughter moved out of town near university). NOTE: Trial noted that it was valid when my daughter lived at home and public transportation was not available. Son was not attending post-sec at the time.
And my Ex won't supply me with tuition tax receipts (kids pay 30%, I pay 46.2% and Ex pays 23.8%).
Ex is always late providing me with disclosure as per final order.
Ex will not consent to ANY changes proposed.
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Given all this, is there enough small change(s) in circumstance for a Motion to Change Final Order or Vary? (which one)
I need the final order to be clear otherwise FRO collects first and no courts will give it back.
Thanks
=D