again my wording reflects my experience in programming, strict to the point and close up any loopholes. you have to handle exceptions and pass down variables and execute them in proper form and type. Again its not my intention to come across that way and i am actively working with the fellow members with my offer to settle.
Think of both negotiations and legal documents as a programming language. In fact, legal documents were the first programming language. The style of writing, argument, paragraphing, etc. is all designed to follow a logical order. Each paragraph supports or explains the previous. Your writing is a jumble, and it looks like you cut and pasted a lot of it from old civil (not family law) documents you've found.
the grand father is huge, he can keep me away with just 1 arm should i somehow be possessed to do such a thing. I am not a threat to him even with the child.
We weren't there, so I have refrained from commenting. However there is such a thing as interpersonal skills, along with conflict resolution. I've also worked as a bouncer and, yes, there were many points where I had to flat out pound someone. My point is, you have the skills or you don't. If a situation is escalating, there are at least two people responsible and you are one of them.
You think i haven't applied for private companies or corporate businesses? I get rejected because i do not have a substantive portfolio and not enough experience. Although several companies will consider me within a few years, i still have to wait and get contracts to whatever they come by.
Look, I get that, and most of us do. However you are not presenting yourself as someone who is building a business by generating a portfolio. You present yourself as someone who wants to exist outside the "system" and doesn't choose to work on the books. When you present yourself that way, it colours everything else people see. This is not just personal advice, it is something that a judge is very likely to address when deciding if you are capable of having custody of a dependant. You have to get it through your head, the judge will be JUDGING you. That is what they are paid to do. You will have your life put under a microscope, you will be criticized, you will be judged. We have all been through this in varying degrees. It isn't fun. You are at greater risk because you don't follow a "standard" path in life. I'm not putting you down, I am preparing you for what you will be facing.
all the education i have obtained was not from college. Did i really have a choice myself personally for school and high school. not really, but how much do you honestly use what you learned from high school. i can safely say, nothing. absolutely nothing.
I asked you about this much earlier in the thread. I stated that you need to be clear if you have a degree or not. You replied that yes, you did have a degree. Again, you need to stop contradicting yourself, get your story straight, and above all, be factual. You will be in court, not in an internet chatroom.
you got it wrong. she tried to claim that she had a copy of the dna test saying he WAS the father, but could not produce it.
It has been a long thread, a lot of statements get mixed up.
Again please remain on topic.
We'll do our best, but you get what you pay for.
