Legal Demand through MEPS for Financial Disclosure from ex and new partner

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I haven't received my spousal support in four months. He apparently renegotiated for a new job that hasn't materialize yet. I have a question, how long will Maintenance Enforcement wait for the financial disclosure. If they don't produce it, are there any consequences for them that will come out such as being called into court, etc.

I just got EI myself and I am seriously in financial distress.

Gary: Please don't insult me.
 
atlanticcanadian said:
I just got EI myself and I am seriously in financial distress.

Gary: Please don't insult me.
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Congrats on your pogey; I am heartened that my tax dollars are going to good use.

Why would I insult you? I'm certain that you have many good qualities. Like... um... consistency, for example: Every thread you've started has been about how to live off of someone else's earnings.

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:cool:

Cheers!

Gary
 
That was not my Intent

That was not my Intent

My intent was to get a settlement that he would follow. I don't want to live off of someone else. I wanted him to follow the settlement he came up with. I helped him get his education at the detriment to my own career. Why should I now live in poverty? I wasn't married for a short period of time. I was married for 20 years. I feel I deserve something.

Gary: did you pay anything when your relationship ended. You seriously remind of one of those type of people that wouldn't even pay child support.
 
Gary M said:
You're right: I don't pay child support :cool:

Cheers!

Gary
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Don't you think this is becoming childish? I know I do.

Do you have children. Did your former partner ask for spousal support.

This is the last I am saying because I feel this is childish and I am feeling put down.
 
One last thing

One last thing

I have been looking for a job for over a year and have worked contract/temp. I just want my fair share. I am not looking to live high off of someone's else earnings and I resent someone making the implication that I am.
 
How the hell is someone else's paycheque YOUR fair share?

Perhaps you should actually do some research on Gary's situation before you attempt to use it against him as an insult. Doing so only makes you look ridiculously stupid.

McDonald's and Tim's are always hiring. If you were dead serious about supporting yourself you'd take WHATEVER job you could get to do so. You've been unemployed for over a year, have you applied at either?
 
As you said not knowing someone's story

As you said not knowing someone's story

As you said not knowing someone's story makes you look ridiculous. I have been working. Furthermore, I have a disability. You are the one that is looking ridiculous.

I helped my ex get his education and he makes four times what I do without even thinking about it. I think I deserve something until I get my career back on track and then I will say good-bye to the spousal support.

This is ridiculous and is just making me angry.
 
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How the hell is someone else's paycheque YOUR fair share?

Perhaps you should actually do some research on Gary's situation before you attempt to use it against him as an insult. Doing so only makes you look ridiculously stupid. Maybe you should have looked into my situation before you commented. You are the one that looks ridiculous.

McDonald's and Tim's are always hiring. If you were dead serious about supporting yourself you'd take WHATEVER job you could get to do so. You've been unemployed for over a year, have you applied at either?
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Yes, I did but with two college diplmas and an almost completed university degree, they told me straight out I was overqualified. I am in Halifax so long term employment is hard to find.


I am wondering if this forum and senior members in it are just there to enflame people.

I never even got equalization because he took everything out before the divorce was final and that it was the judge said they need to take it out of his salary. Maybe you may want to look at my situation.
 
Yeah yeah, you've posted your little story in every thread you've started about how to get your $3700/month spousal support. People are tired of it, give it a break.


You think you 'deserve 'something, others disagree. Others think you should get a job.

And bullshit about having applied at Tim's or McD's. They wouldn't not hire you for being 'overqualified' to sling burgers or pour coffee.

I guess the challenge for you is finding a job that's going to pay you the $3700/month free money you get from the ex. Why work for it if you can sit back and have someone else do the work for you?
 
atlanticcanadian said:
My intent was to get a settlement that he would follow. I don't want to live off of someone else. I wanted him to follow the settlement he came up with. I helped him get his education at the detriment to my own career. Why should I now live in poverty? I wasn't married for a short period of time. I was married for 20 years. I feel I deserve something.

Gary: did you pay anything when your relationship ended. You seriously remind of one of those type of people that wouldn't even pay child support.
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how was helping him get a education stop your own career advances??
 
atlanticcanadian said:
I will give it a break
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Yeah, you said that about 6 posts ago....

atlanticcanadian said:
I don't need this shit.
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Agreed. What you NEED is to stop thinking the world owes you something. What you NEED is to put on your Big Girl pants and take responsibility for yourself. What you NEED is to stop blaming everyone else (the judge, your lawyer, your ex's boss, your ex's woman....) for your train-wreck of a life. What you NEED is to stop making excuses (come ON: I know people with honours undergrad degrees who are slinging coffee and asking people if they want to supersize their fries). What you NEED is to move on. What you NEED is to realize that the free ride is over, that the gravy train has left the station, that Santa isn't real (sorry guys!) and that from now on you have to work your ass off to put food on the table - like the rest of us.

Do I despise people like you? You bet your ass I do. Prove me wrong.

Cheers!

Gary
 
atlanticcanadian said:
Guess you missed something it was reduced when I went back to work. I will give it a break. I don't need this shit.
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i just asked a simple question, I really do not want to go through every post you have made to see why your career suffered because you helped him with his education. or is making someone read every single thread you have started another way of making someone do something for you so you dont have to??
 
You don't need to read every thread, SOTS, they're all the same:

"I can't work and it's all my EX's fault because he up and married someone else so he should pay for me for the rest of my life. How do I MAKE HIM PAY????"

Wash, rinse, repeat.
 
Atlanticcanadian,

If I were you,, I wouldnt respond to sour grapes... it is clear that the Family Laws are quite upsetting to some and especially to those who have to pay support,,, well I say tuff luck, maybe my x would re-consider the fun he had with his 4 different transsexual whores if he realized this was going to cost him many many thousands of dollars a month in spousal support--just the price you pay after 28 years of marriage,
I supported him thru professional school, raised 2 great kids and had a debt free life, so just oo bad.
Don't defend your entitlement to these loosers---just do what you need to do.
I aint' getting no job, I am collecting from the x---till dealth do us part.. Oh welll hopefully first him cuz then its also his life insurance for moi....

Cheers to all---all those hard done by guys----write the cheques and just shut up!!!!!!
 
momforever1956 said:
Atlanticcanadian,

If I were you,, I wouldnt respond to sour grapes... it is clear that the Family Laws are quite upsetting to some and especially to those who have to pay support,,, well I say tuff luck, maybe my x would re-consider the fun he had with his 4 different transsexual whores if he realized this was going to cost him many many thousands of dollars a month in spousal support--just the price you pay after 28 years of marriage,
I supported him thru professional school, raised 2 great kids and had a debt free life, so just oo bad.
Don't defend your entitlement to these loosers---just do what you need to do.
I aint' getting no job, I am collecting from the x---till dealth do us part.. Oh welll hopefully first him cuz then its also his life insurance for moi....

Cheers to all---all those hard done by guys----write the cheques and just shut up!!!!!!
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You call people losers and you refuse to get a job and support yourself. Not all woman are bitter and feel the need to nail the guy to the wall after a divorce. Some of us want to hold our heads up high and say we can make it on our own.
 
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