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Barely!!!!!!

Hi Hubby,
I hope you are doing all well as can be expected-considering what the legal system 'makes' people endure.
I was surprised you said barely b/c the last time I a post from you (it's been awhile since I've been here on a regular basis) you and your stbx were dealing amicable and working together on everything.
Hope you're fine--you know as well s I do that "Greater is He who is in me than he who is in this world". Keep you chin up-easier sadi than done, isn't it?
I'm so emotionally exhausted from all of this that it's hard to talk to anyone about it, to regurgitate anything relevant to it is so difficult.
I feel like I'm living but not enjoying life and it's sad that all my zest for life is diminishing. I'm always, constantly asking God to give me strength and widsom about what to proceed with and what not to. I am a strong person but I'm to the point where I don't know if God wants me to back off, back down; I'm not sure. I really need to just have a simp;e laugh in my life. Sorry to sound so depressing, it just seems to be reality for me for so many years. If I lose strengh now I may regret it down the road but I can't see this as my path in life when I have so much more to offer.
Anyway, that ws alot more than I wanted to say but I really signed on to say it is good to hear from you.
God Bless.
 
Barely

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GKTT,

Hey, do I ever know what emotional exhaustion is about, cant get enuff sleep!

Be still and be silent ... is about the best advice I can give during times of turmoil. All comes to pass and one eventually emerges from the darkness into the light.

One thing I have learned and learned well is that NOTHING ever stays constant ... nothing. Everything does come to pass ... it's patience and remaining still and silent that get ya there.

I've moved out of the Matrimonial home, homes been sold and XW is moving out next week. She has changed so much ... she's not the girl I fell in love with but you know, one friend said, while you may think you're waiting for her to change, maybe it may be her waiting for you to change ... hmm.

LV, it' comes as no surprise to see you still on these boards ... you really should contemplate becoming a FL lawyer ... you would do fantastic.

Hope everyone else is doing well ...

Peace and Love

Hubby
 
Hubby, last I heard is that you and the wife were getting back together... sounds like things have turned around again. Too bad.

What the situation regarding custody, access and support. You had about 100 questions on all things divorce.
 
Decent Dad said:
Hubby, last I heard is that you and the wife were getting back together... sounds like things have turned around again. Too bad.

What the situation regarding custody, access and support. You had about 100 questions on all things divorce.
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It was my intention to want to get back together and work on the marriage. I just don't believe you throw away love without first having given it a chance to mend the past hurts. I am now moving on in my life, re-aligning my goals and priorities.

Custody will be joint every second weekend, liberal access and support based on CS guidelines ... it does not leave me much to live on, but all that is required is freedom and fresh air for me to live.

Lawyers are playing their games 'to win' or get the 'best outcome'. My X has put herself into a financial bind by her own doing ... I am patiently waiting for the equalization statement to be finalized, custody agreeed upon, access and all the details to be hammered out. She thought it would be an easy thing, I knew it would take time ... and her anger and frustrationn is being taken out on me. She thinks I am the casue of the delay, however, I am merely going with the flow of the system.

I experience GREAT pain at time but know it will pass. I pray,hope and believe that all that happens, happens for the GREATER good.

Peace and Love

Hubby
 
Hubby,

I have something that you might like to get....if the moderators don't mind my posting a link to it?

Maybe you already know about it but, it's called "One Day At A Time" (through DivorceCare) and they send you every day for one year, an email that you are sure to find helpful.

http://www.divorcecare.org/dailyemails/

It's free. Simply complete the form and click submit.

YSIC,

mollpop
 
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