I've decided it's over - now what??

[ladybugdeb22]

Hello, This is my situation, maybe someone will have some advice. Now that I've decided that my marriage is over I've come to two major obstacles - how to tell my husband without him flipping out and better yet - how to leave when he's the bread winner of the family and in control of all the money. I've been a stay at home mom since we had our daughter in 1999 and relied solely on his income since. If it makes any difference we've been married since 1996. Any advice???

 

[Grace]

My advice would be to talk to a lawyer first. Understand your rights. Then sit down and talk to him.

 

[logicalvelocity]

I agree with Grace 100%

 

[ladyluck]

ladybug - did you see a lawyer yet?

Please keep us updated on your progress, I would love to hear how you are doing.