How to handle domestic 'soft' violence

[Jinneebhat]

I am preparing my contract paperwork with the attorney and soon will be sending my intention to separate to my spouse
Please advise my course of action for the following reactions which i expect from my wife

1. Hide my important and work critical items
2. Break my important and work critical items
3. Utter threats of destroying me and even killing me
4. Hurting the teenage kids who have always sided me and called her abuser
5. Trying to damage walls and floors of house
6. Yelling in streets, for getting neighbors attention and embarrass our family

Yes she is a psychic and is unable to manage anger. 911 is my last resort. Does 211 or any similar number helps? Any male helpline?

 

[rockscan]

Hide your important documents yourself. This should be obvious. If she is physically violent or creating a disturbance, call the police. Video everything she does for a record.

You can’t diagnose her. She isn’t psychic. If she has a mental disorder there is nothing you can do except call the police who can take her to the hospital for a medical evaluation. You could also seek a restraining order due to violence but may need the police.

Ask your lawyer to help with info on restraining orders.