Getting SIN copy- other parent refuses to give it

Tayken said:
Have a grandparent open an RESP and put everything in there. Easiest solution. As for the SIN number. You can request a copy.
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Which grandparent? His mom? Is old and would definitely drain the RESP, because his sister has POA over her affairs and she (his sister) helped him fuck me over financially (they're both accountants).

My parents? He would never allow that.

If you request a copy- they'll ask you why. If you say it was lost- they issue a new one.

I took rocksan's advice and let him know if I don't have the letter or a copy of it before the week's end. I'll report the number as missing next week.
 
seeker101 said:
Assuming one has the SIN of a child, why would a grandparent need approval of the ex? Isn't it totally the grandparents' discretion?

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the issue is that the money to be transferred to the RESP from the sale of the matrimonial home is significant- and the goal is to not have the RESP drained by either party, or through their respective parents.

We only had 3 choices:

1. Agree on an alternate RESP through a bank (and only one person could be the subscriber)

2. Go with the CST

3. Go back to court for clarification
 
rockscan said:
Tell him to provide you with either the email he sent to his RESP rep or permission to contact that rep for the number.

If he refuses, tell him you expect to receive a copy of the letter within 24 hours or you will be calling to report it missing and requesting a new one which will impact his RESP if he has one.

Also, as soon as you get it, open your own damn RESP to get the grant money. If he has opened his own he has gotten the grant money from the govt.
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Thanks Rocksan- this is exactly what I did. I don't like pulling the ultimatum card. But I did it.

I told him if I didn't have it by the next exchange I would report it lost. He said then he wanted her notarized birth certificate copy before he would exchange. So I said "sure".

And it was done.
 
iona6656 said:
Thanks Rocksan- this is exactly what I did. I don't like pulling the ultimatum card. But I did it.



I told him if I didn't have it by the next exchange I would report it lost. He said then he wanted her notarized birth certificate copy before he would exchange. So I said "sure".



And it was done.
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He found it?
 
Getting SIN copy- other parent refuses to give it

Yep. But of course he demanded a copy of the birth certificate before he’d give it to me. So sure. I had it ready to go. I was going to send it to his lawyer, but now I’ve fulfilled that obligation.
 
Holy Christ what a nightmare. I don't have custody, but my ex asked me to contribute to his post secondary education. She hasn't opened an RESP and he's almost 17 years old so that precludes him from benefiting from government contributions through various grants but it does provide a refuge from taxation. I tried to get his SIN card and photo ID but she's refused outright. I told my son if he wants it he's going to have to get his own SIN card as he's old enough to get it on his own, and I'll pay for him to acquire his Ontario ID card. My ex is just hurting her own son by denying him these funds for his post secondary education. It's unreal.
 
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