I will try keep this brief and to the point. Have been in family court over child support arrears, we signed a separation agreement in 2006 that was never registered in Family Court, I paid for 2 years and we then agreed to have shared custody 50/50 so had the ex sign a letter, then i bought a house she wrote another letter saying 50/50, for 4 years we had my daughter 50/50 we had several verbal and emails stating that is she paid the subsidized daycare fee she could collect all the benefits and tax deductions, she was the financial winner i didn't care I just wanted my child and to not pay support. For 4 years we did this, then she went on stress leave from the DND and cancelled the subsidized daycare and wanted my daughter full-time.
My daughter was 8 at the time and it has been a struggle dealing with this women so I said I would pay her support. Well she went to the court and registered the 2006 document 6 years later and filled out the court documents stating I was 18000 in arrears and reported me to FRO who was more then happy to say i was in arrears. Since I had the two letters she signed and the daycare records showing I took my daughter more then 50 percent of the time it went to court. After 5000 dollars I am still not sure what i got for this at the case conference the judge dealt with 2 out of the 3 issues and told the ex she had to decide if she wanted to proceed with the outstanding arrears of 19K.
So sent FRO this paperwork from the case conference and my point of view and the worker said asked me if i had sent her the previous week a letter on my employers letterhead stating I ........wanted FRO to deduct 1000.00 a month for the next 19 months until the arrears was settled, it had my email and my work employee number, the worker said the signature matched mine. I protested saying fraud and asked for a copy to be sent ans was told no sorry they cant do that, in the end after my HR department got involved as there letterhead was used in a fraud the worker is going to send me a copy. I cant prove anything is this worth getting the police involved. Any suggestions.
My daughter was 8 at the time and it has been a struggle dealing with this women so I said I would pay her support. Well she went to the court and registered the 2006 document 6 years later and filled out the court documents stating I was 18000 in arrears and reported me to FRO who was more then happy to say i was in arrears. Since I had the two letters she signed and the daycare records showing I took my daughter more then 50 percent of the time it went to court. After 5000 dollars I am still not sure what i got for this at the case conference the judge dealt with 2 out of the 3 issues and told the ex she had to decide if she wanted to proceed with the outstanding arrears of 19K.
So sent FRO this paperwork from the case conference and my point of view and the worker said asked me if i had sent her the previous week a letter on my employers letterhead stating I ........wanted FRO to deduct 1000.00 a month for the next 19 months until the arrears was settled, it had my email and my work employee number, the worker said the signature matched mine. I protested saying fraud and asked for a copy to be sent ans was told no sorry they cant do that, in the end after my HR department got involved as there letterhead was used in a fraud the worker is going to send me a copy. I cant prove anything is this worth getting the police involved. Any suggestions.
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