FRO closed and now open again

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newtothis2011

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closed in april due to schooling ending , no proof of this attending or continued schooling - no grades - it was a 2yr course
21yr old kid
registration shows 17-19 - not for 2020

Now FRO says its open again and we need to pay since april , she lied and said no letter ever received by them and therefore she didn't responded ..what a huge lie
would she not wonder why she wasn't paid
pretty sure we need to go to court , this doesn't make sense and she is grasping for money , the child isnt in school
unfortunately she needs to release with FRO until than he has no choice but pay again and arrears which in no fault of this own


court is best , even if self represented

why the system works against paying people as well , makes no sense , any thoughts on court ? and getting this on own
Can get a lawyer
 
He needs to file a motion to change to terminate support. FRO will reach out to the other parent but they can lie.

Does the agreement say child support ends at age 21? If it does then he needs to have FRO look at the agreement. Normally when you make them read it on the phone they give an answer.

If he is under 21 and back in school then yes he does have to pay again.
 
clearly believe he isnt in school , requested grades and no answer , why would she wait 6months and lie and say she never got the papers , yet we did , and not wonder why payment wasn't being made , all to fishy
need to go to court get the real answer
clearly someone isnt be honest and making it work for her , and now arrears for 5months ,
not fair
I dont think a judge would like this behavior

now she threatens garnish , when he always paid on time and every month

It ends at 21 but in school full time , child turns 21 early next year
 
newtothis2011 said:
clearly believe he isnt in school , requested grades and no answer , why would she wait 6months and lie and say she never got the papers , yet we did , and not wonder why payment wasn't being made , all to fishy

need to go to court get the real answer

clearly someone isnt be honest and making it work for her , and now arrears for 5months ,

not fair

I dont think a judge would like this behavior



now she threatens garnish , when he always paid on time and every month



It ends at 21 but in school full time , child turns 21 early next year
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You just said the same thing as your first post. You need to file a motion to change to end support. Do that ASAP... FRO can only enforce orders and so if your order states you pay until 21, then you pay until 21... it’s not hard for them to fake letters from schools


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You’re not making sense.

You have an order for support until they are 21. Kid is not 21 yet. Kid was in school until April and then went back last month. You DO owe support for April to now because kid went back to school.
 
yes its a repeat and a lawyer will be the next step and than court , done with this situation sadly , no issues paying ever have and clearly after never missing a payment why would someone start now after over 20yrs ,
FRO should be able to require that and enforce that as well .
all good , thats why they have lawyers and court

thanks for the positive words
honest ppl in the end , than it works
 
No support ended as child was done 2year course
In April
Did the termination of support with FRO and she never replied till now 6months later saying she never got the letter
Its reopened now
No issue paying as in school
Order up to 21yrs in school full time
He isn't in school

Need to go to court to settle this with either true proof or
Get the court order to stop

Took you advise on the form from FRO but now this
The case was closed since April when documents were asked for
She claims they were never recieved
 
Yes :(
Never given proper information
This is the confusion
And child isnt in school full time
FRO can reopen if she chooses to and not close it with consent from her
Clearly going to court
Need this taken care of so FRO can truly now close it for good
 
Ok without typing any extra word vomit, WHAT EXACTLY DOES YOUR ORDER SAY?

-Child Support payable until child is 21?
-Child Support payable until child is no longer a full time student?
-Child Support payable until child is 21 AND in some form of school?

Just type exactly what your order says
 
My guess is your order says something about paying child support until child is 21 as long as they are a full time student.

I am also guessing your kid enrolled in some sort of 2 year program after high school, and completed that program in April.
You then filed to end CS as you figured child was done. Or maybe you had a suspicion they weren’t but decided to jump the gun anyways.
Child then decided to continue their education and enrolled in new program/degree/whatever and began school in September. Mom contacted you and said HEY! Kid is still in school, you still have to pay.

Summary: you still have to pay.
 
newtothis2011 said:
Actually reads

The child is 18yrs of age and ceases to be in school fulltime attendance at an educational institution
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That’s what it reads word for word? If so, that’s very poorly worded... when was your agreement written that it states the child is 18 years of age? and if the child was 18 and not in school when you signed the agreement then how do you have arrears?

It’s really hard for anyone to give you actual helpful advice when the details provided make no sense...




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Child did finish 2yr program
Mother didnt notify and no word on anything
Please understand we arent here to say not to pay
If in school ...yes of course
Never missed a payment why now?
However I have no proof of full time attendance
No grades .No new registration
Completely out of the information on this
And when asked. No reply.
If support continues no issue in doing so.
Sadly I meet all requirements always and when asked no responses.

This has been handed over to a lawyer and clearly a,court issue..unfortunately
 
There are a lot of “programs” that are only two years which does not lead to a diploma or degree. Regardless of your agreement, a judge will still order support paid until the child has an education that completes a degree. From the sounds of it you don’t even know what the child’s education or program is so it was very bold of you to try to stop support.

Added to that, just because you sent forms to FRO does not mean it stops. The form is sent to the recipient to confirm the child is not in school. Just because the ex ignored the form doesn’t mean you simply stop. You still pay until they say stop.

I caution you now that you may also be on the hook for school expenses too. Prepare yourself for that.
 
Totally aware of the program and what school

The course details and all.

They said the support didnt need to be paid
Those where the words from them.
I have been however putting the funds aside so I'm good.

We shall see where it falls.

Not a parent who doesbt pay.
 
Until one or more if the following occurs
Child ceases to reside with parent

The child be becomes 18 yrs or age and ceases full time attendance at an education institute
 
newtothis2011 said:
Until one or more if the following occurs
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There are some conditions where CS will not be paid:

1.
Child ceases to reside with parent
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Child is residing with parent, so this condition is not met.

2.
The child be becomes 18 yrs or age and ceases full time attendance at an education institute
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Child must be both over 18 and not in full time attendance. Child is over 18, but is in full time attendance, so this condition is not met.

Since neither condition for ending CS has been met, you must continue to pay child support.
 
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