For those taking another kick at the cat

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wannabehappy1978 said:
sucker for amazing eye color, a handsome face, and a thick accent lol. so where u from again? lol

with my guy now...I keep saying if the ex had even half of his personable qualities I wouldn't have ran off in panic
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Early days right? Let's hope things stay that way in 10yrs time ;)

There is a saying.....show me a beautiful woman, and I'll show you a guy that is sick of shagging her". The same applies the other way round too :D
 
I am so very happy for those of you who have found someone new to share your life with.

Going through an acrimonious divorce and ensuing years of litigation has not been fun. However, there are many wonderful people out there.

No one is perfect and meeting a person who respects you and your children is a blessing.

Good for all of you who have taken the leap of faith. Don't look back and enjoy yourselves!!!!!
 
wannabehappy1978 said:
thx Arabian. Mt ex is Arabian,and I hope one day he can say the same. ...for oink...lol....that's a good one!
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Tis true....just look at a few celebs that some will consider pretty, and how things have turned out for them (Jennifer Aniston, Halle Berry et al)

I think for most of us, if you can pause for a second and look past that initial attraction / sex appeal to get to the main "substance" that is the foundation to a successful marriage, then you will be able to see things more clearly.

Problem is, most get wrapped all in all that fluff (sex, looks, scared to be alone etc) and by the time they realize they've ignored the red flags, it's too late)
 
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Tis true....just look at a few celebs that some will consider pretty, and how things have turned out for them (Jennifer Aniston, Halle Berry et al)

I think for most of us, if you can pause for a second and look past that initial attraction / sex appeal to get to the main "substance" that is the foundation to a successful marriage, then you will be able to see things more clearly.

Problem is, most get wrapped all in all that fluff (sex, looks, scared to be alone etc) and by the time they realize they've ignored the red flags, it's too late)
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I'm going to be picky and try and get it all....Why not...

A perfect 10....oh wait...nevermind
 
FB_ said:
I'm going to be picky and try and get it all....Why not...

A perfect 10....oh wait...nevermind
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Just make sure she has a CAREER.....a job is not good enough

Saying I have a job could mean she works for minimum wage

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wannabehappy1978 said:
well if it doesn't work out with the new guy IM gonna be an old fashioned FD digger when I grow up
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As long as you are thinking with your head this time around, and not some other part of your anatomy, then you should be alright.

Do you have a list like most of us? Just curious ;)
 
oink said:
As long as you are thinking with your head this time around, and not some other part of your anatomy, then you should be alright.

Do you have a list like most of us? Just curious ;)
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hahah...guys think with their anatomies
ya my list is handsome, working in some sort of trade or good income, who is family oriented, who likes me for who I am and is not annoyed of my voice, who can be compassionate towards a woman...like when she's feeling down about something he can give her comfort and an ear to listen to...and who is funny..and who laughs at my jokes too, who loves to dance and learn new dances, who likes all kinds of music, oh ya...and gotta be into working out and getting fit and good self esteem but not too full of himself and who is willing to learn new things and who doesnt' take things personally too easily and who isn't too shy and introverted.
 
wannabehappy1978 said:
hahah...guys think with their anatomies
ya my list is handsome, working in some sort of trade or good income, who is family oriented, who likes me for who I am and is not annoyed of my voice, who can be compassionate towards a woman...like when she's feeling down about something he can give her comfort and an ear to listen to...and who is funny..and who laughs at my jokes too, who loves to dance and learn new dances, who likes all kinds of music, oh ya...and gotta be into working out and getting fit and good self esteem but not too full of himself and who is willing to learn new things and who doesnt' take things personally too easily and who isn't too shy and introverted.
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Do we know each other? I could have swore you just described me, with the only difference being that I can already dance, and in an incredible shape for my age, and not full of myself :D

You have my number....call me :p
 
I'm with Qrious .... NEVER AGAIN! I swear, anyone considering marriage should first take a look at the posts in here - a first class education to be sure!

Love absolutely! Marriage? never again .......... SHEESH!!!!
 
love is blind laidieeeees ;-) next time I'll be sure to be a stay at home mom for at least 5 years, have two kids, get proof of him cheating and make sure he remains successful in work...then get a divorce, keep the house, and collect spousal support and child support . if you want to learn more see www.marriagedivorcemoneymaker.com :-P tea anyone?
 
wannabehappy1978 said:
love is blind laidieeeees ;-) next time I'll be sure to be a stay at home mom for at least 5 years, have two kids, get proof of him cheating and make sure he remains successful in work...then get a divorce, keep the house, and collect spousal support and child support . if you want to learn more see www.marriagedivorcemoneymaker.com :-P tea anyone?
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Now that the cat is out of the bag, good luck with that :D

Your link is dead by the way
 
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