first the moving party (who started the motion) talks, then the responding party, then the moving party again.
This is what happens in a motion, not a case conference.
Then the judge comes up with a decision or if she needs more information he/she books another CC.
- Judges do not make decisions at conferences.
- You do not have motions before the case conference, unless they are urgent or procedural.
- It is rare for parties to have more than one case conference. Generally, this only happens if it needs to be adjourned (party not prepared, etc); however, most people in those cases have the conference bumped without having to attend.
the first judge to hear the initial case conference is also the one who would sit in, if a trial were to happen.
This is not correct.
In a CC, I didn't think a judge would make final decisions unless there was advance notice that a party would be requesting a motion be made at the CC
- A final decision can only be rendered at trial. Motions produce interlocutory relief, not final. (motion to change exceptional)
- Motions do not happen at case conferences.
judge gave temporary order for even more CS increase than the previous judge.
A judge does not have the power to do that. I don't doubt your story; I suspect the judge asked your ex if they thought it was fair (and thus obtained their consent). Some judges find it useful to forget the limits on what can be ordered at a conference if the result (should the matter be litigated) is very clear and a party is being obstinate.
Order - First Xs lawyer presented their position, then my lawyer presented. Judge gave advice.
I will comment, every judge has their own conference style. Usually the Applicant gets the ball rolling, but sometimes the judge will direct the dialogue by asking questions, or if only the respondent has a lawyer they may start. With certain judges, it is closer to a conversation than a motion.
You should not address the other party unless you are invited to by the judge.
Sound advice.
interim order may be made without consent, especially for things like child support
Orders can be made that support be continued, but not to adjust the quanta of payments. See above.