Difficulty Sharing Expenses in Shared Acess

Have you asked your ex to do the registration for the activities himself (and pay the fees), as opposed to reimbursing you? I had this issue with my ex not reimbursing me for Kid's one activity, and being out hundreds of dollars until he got around to paying. I finally said "I'd like you to register her for the winter session". He agreed, and paid the up-front cost when he registered. I had to stop enabling his spaciness and disorganization.

Worst case: your ex won't get around to registering and the kids will miss out for a session. Hopefully, the guilt will make him a bit more responsible in the future.

Hi Stripes. I could and SHOULD do this from now on. I have kind of enabled him, true. Good suggestion :)
 
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