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Zhoozhelitsa said:
Oh, LOL, I skipped through the posts and there was one where Dad said there was a river in Russia called the Crimea? This has got to be the most random piece I have come across so far. Could someone explain to me what it's supposed to mean? As a foreigner, I may be missing out on some culture-specific innuendos.
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Cry me a river.
 
yup. ..spell check, using my i phone, still working out the kinks..also my only sorce of internet...trying to cut costs...I know you don't have to worry about that. So yes..should of reviewed more....interesting that you are not able to put it together though....sexual innuendo...hmmm sweet and salty??? not sure about that one lol...your mind must be far more twisted than mine lol....fudgepacking...did not say that...but I can see how your mind would get there!

If you're gonna quote someone...which you have and I see you have the ability...you should do right.

As for my spelling issues...well I am sure if I had the time to post over 3500 times I just might be able to work on for you lol...where are your children when you're on the computer posting? Do you work? ...or...just live on what mommy gives you...all I know I wish I had your time...maybe little jimmy or sally are being neglected while you spend all this time posting and making yourself look like an ass on this fourm?? I don't know...just asking...come on dtte you can do better than this...other than coming up with a few spelling errors...you have lots of time on your hands...I only have less than a couple hundred posts I have a lot of work to do to be as good as you Lol ....it doesn't take much to get your blood boiling does it? I have an employer just like you...they get so focused on trying to get someone...they get tunnel vision and make themselves look like idiots and forget what the real issues are...then they start making up crap to cover their mistakes/lies..and in the end paying out huge amounts of money...get themselves in hot water...all because they lost focus on the issue and made it personal.

You don't like what I post...then don't read it....put me on ignore or something like that...I shouldn't have to hold your hand.
 
LostFather said:
yup. ..spell check, using my i phone, still working out the kinks..also my only sorce of internet...trying to cut costs...I know you don't have to worry about that. So yes..should of reviewed more....interesting that you are not able to put it together though....sexual innuendo...hmmm sweet and salty??? not sure about that one lol...your mind must be far more twisted than mine lol....fudgepacking...did not say that...but I can see how your mind would get there!

If you're gonna quote someone...which you have and I see you have the ability...you should do right.

As for my spelling issues...well I am sure if I had the time to post over 3500 times I just might be able to work on for you lol...where are your children when you're on the computer posting? Do you work? ...or...just live on what mommy gives you...all I know I wish I had your time...maybe little jimmy or sally are being neglected while you spend all this time posting and making yourself look like an ass on this fourm?? I don't know...just asking...come on dtte you can do better than this...other than coming up with a few spelling errors...you have lots of time on your hands...I only have less than a couple hundred posts I have a lot of work to do to be as good as you Lol ....it doesn't take much to get your blood boiling does it? I have an employer just like you...they get so focused on trying to get someone...they get tunnel vision and make themselves look like idiots and forget what the real issues are...then they start making up crap to cover their mistakes/lies..and in the end paying out huge amounts of money...get themselves in hot water...all because they lost focus on the issue and made it personal.

You don't like what I post...then don't read it....put me on ignore or something like that...I shouldn't have to hold your hand.
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Have you been told you're a j*ck*ss yet today? It's men like YOU who give men a bad name. Maybe you don't have a psycho ex, maybe the psycho ex is you.
 
Zhoozhelitsa said:
There is no river in Russia called The Crimea, that's why I thought it was random.
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If LC is allowed excuse himself for his spelling errors and carelessness in fixing them, then I will excuse myself for using Russia instead of the Ukraine. I like alliteration.

LostFather said:
As for my spelling issues...well I am sure if I had the time to post over 3500 times I just might be able to work on for you lol...where are your children when you're on the computer posting?
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Almost three more years than you here as a member has a way of getting me there.
 
Zhoozhelitsa said:
Whoa, good morning, sunshines!..

What's going on in this thread? Aren't you people tired of hating each other yet? Hours of postings with adrenal glands working overtime...not good...I wonder if I'll see one of these retrospective cohort studies 20 years from now, "Chronic adrenal insufficiency in frequent users of internet discussion boards", something like that..

Can anyone say something nice and constructive?

Oh, LOL, I skipped through the posts and there was one where Dad said there was a river in Russia called the Crimea? This has got to be the most random piece I have come across so far. Could someone explain to me what it's supposed to mean? As a foreigner, I may be missing out on some culture-specific innuendos.
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lol...yes there maybe a lot of hate in here sometimes...I do not carry hate...more of sorrow for dtte...he says that he has "contained himself" lately...so I am sure it wouldn't take much imagination as to what he is like when not so contained! I can only say that in my opinion it wouldn't take long before going through his thousands of posts to get the real picture. If he is like this in here when someone doesn't agree with him...I can only imagine in his real life issues. I wouldn't want to be on the receiving on.

Bullies in here will also seem to gang up on people and protect other bullies as well these bullies are very able in dishing it out...but when it comes back their way...well you see I am sure.

You are right many hours are wasted...some waste more than others...I find myself getting caught up in the emotions and attacks...though the thing I find particularly interesting, these birds of feather...of how righteous they feel...and protective of one another...even though the one they're protecting is spewing rubbish and insults, they get particularly protective when one of their own is getting a little return on their deposite ....to them that person can do or say no wrong....birds of a feather.....these birds only believe that it is somone else that is making them behave badly.....I can only be responsible for what I say and do. One thing is they do not like it when someone sticks up for themself.
 
dadtotheend said:
If LC is allowed excuse himself for his spelling errors and carelessness in fixing them, then I will excuse myself for using Russia instead of the Ukraine. I like alliteration.
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It's not a river though :-( Sorry, I'm biased as I have lived there. A beautiful place.

I just didn't understand why you used it in a post. It seemed unrelated to the topic hence I wondered if there was a cultural reference to it that's escaping me b/c I didn't grow up in North America.
 
dadtotheend said:
If LC is allowed excuse himself for his spelling errors and carelessness in fixing them, then I will excuse myself for using Russia instead of the Ukraine. I like alliteration.



Almost three more years than you here as a member has a way of getting me there.
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Just a thought dtte, then maybe its time to excuse yourself for awhile. You know of all the back and forth we've had...I have pointed out to you and others that you have a lot to offer people in here...I just don't understand why you feel the need to curse, demean and belittle others when they don't agree...I have stated before I am truly happy for you that you have your.children and they're not being withheld from you...but just because others havent been as successful as you..doesnt mean they're idiots...or if someone doesn't agree with your opinion that you have the right to abuse them verbally.

When some decides to stick up for themselves and call you on it....you dig deeper...it brings us all lower...myself included....words hurt....as I am sure some of mine have...I can only be responsible for me...and for my words I am sorry...I should know of better to just choose not to respond.
 
LostFather said:
Just a thought dtte, then maybe its time to excuse yourself for awhile. You know of all the back and forth we've had...I have pointed out to you and others that you have a lot to offer people in here...I just don't understand why you feel the need to curse, demean and belittle others when they don't agree...I have stated before I am truly happy for you that you have your.children and they're not being withheld from you...but just because others havent been as successful as you..doesnt mean they're idiots...or if someone doesn't agree with your opinion that you have the right to abuse them verbally.

When some decides to stick up for themselves and call you on it....you dig deeper...it brings us all lower...myself included....words hurt....as I am sure some of mine have...I can only be responsible for me...and for my words I am sorry...I should know of better to just choose not to respond.
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Choosing not to respond doesn't bring closure, LF. But what you could do is validate a point. If someone comes up to you and calls you an idiot you can acknowledge the person's point and wait. You can say something like, 'you have the right to free speech and I'm glad you are excercising your right'. That's it. You are not confirming nor denying that person's opinion about you because their opinion about you is not relevant. You are just acknowledging that this person had a point to share with you. The point will only hurt you if you let it. From this point on, there is nothing a bully can do but to come back with another insult just to receive the same response. Then gradually, the bully will starve to death because he or she cannot feed off your responses.
 
Zhoozhelitsa said:
Choosing not to respond doesn't bring closure, LF. But what you could do is validate a point. If someone comes up to you and calls you an idiot you can acknowledge the person's point and wait. You can say something like, 'you have the right to free speech and I'm glad you are excercising your right'. That's it. You are not confirming nor denying that person's opinion about you because their opinion about you is not relevant. You are just acknowledging that this person had a point to share with you. The point will only hurt you if you let it. From this point on, there is nothing a bully can do but to come back with another insult just to receive the same response. Then gradually, the bully will starve to death because he or she cannot feed off your responses.
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Yes you're right...and as someone who has facilitated courses on harassment and bullies and mediated work place conflict...I should of known better.

After going what I precieved as hell for the past four years...my rational though process when responding to people that attack is not what it should be...and instead of thinking on a level of reason...my words and thoughts get the better of me..I know how I should be responding..and at first I am usually okay...but as the conversation drags on and the anity is raised...so are my defensive comments...to the point they're not defensive anymore they're premeditated and clearly offensive..rational goes out the window...and I am no better than my attackers. The thing is I know in my heart that there is no chance in hell, in changing that persons point of view....Instead of letting it go I am in some dream land thinking that my preception of reason will change their views...not a chance..lol.
 
LF, iDK why u seem to dislike each other but in this thread I believe you started it with blink and dtte. Maybe an apology and stop fighting?

Zhuzhatita, ur up vs 2 dads so u can't win :D
 
iceberg said:
LF, iDK why u seem to dislike each other but in this thread I believe you started it with blink and dtte. Maybe an apology and stop fighting?

Zhuzhatita, ur up vs 2 dads so u can't win :D
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Interesting thought...maybe you should really read everything...before making comment....i dunno just.a.thought...
 
Yeah, we've read it all dude.

Everytime you put your dumbass boot in your mouth I get closer to a starting a poll like the one we had for rwm? Remember that landslide?
 
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