HappyMomma
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I currently have shared custody of my two daughters and pay CS to my ex. If I go on mat leave, does my CS get adjusted?
If you were together, would you be buying less clothes, offering less activities, delay buying that next bike, etc. to your 2 kids while you were on mat leave for your 3rd kid?
I currently have shared custody of my two daughters and pay CS to my ex. If I go on mat leave, does my CS get adjusted?
I currently have shared custody of my two daughters and pay CS to my ex. If I go on mat leave, does my CS get adjusted?
That question has been asked when dad is starting new family, and has a new baby on the way with new wife and wants his cs reduced, the answer if I'm not mistaken has been NO. Children from first relationship comes first. I believe the rational has been, that you knew that prior to having a new child. I am sure there are more technical terms for it...but the short answer is no.
EI/maternity leave affects line 150 of your tax return and as such would affect your CS and Special expenses component.
So yes, your CS obligation would drop when you go on maternity. IF your agreement is poorly worded, then you would need to return to court to have it decreased.
While I appreciate this may be a sensitive topic, I was asking from a legal standpoint - not from one's personal opinion. I want to know the facts before I go ahead and decide to conceive again.
Thanks, NBDad. This is what I would think is logical. My ex's income is highly variable so we intend to adjust the CS amounts yearly. I found a case on CANLII that DID allow the woman to adjust her CS while on Mat leave. She was not, however, allowed to adjust it to stay home AFTER Mat leave (she wanted to take 15 months unpaid leave as well but had to continue paying during those 15 months since they were considered 'intentional unemployment').
Thanks, NBDad. This is what I would think is logical. My ex's income is highly variable so we intend to adjust the CS amounts yearly. I found a case on CANLII that DID allow the woman to adjust her CS while on Mat leave. She was not, however, allowed to adjust it to stay home AFTER Mat leave (she wanted to take 15 months unpaid leave as well but had to continue paying during those 15 months since they were considered 'intentional unemployment').
Sorry not sure if i am reading right. The amount of the cs you pay is adjusted according to your ex's income? Is your access shared equally or close to?
Lol that's all we have in here is our opinions. Not too many lawyers in here. If you want legal advice you should seek a lawyers opinion. I am assuming that once you tell the person you're paying (if you haven't already) cs will seek advice. I am sure there would be case law on the matter. Try looking for it. I think its called Can law or something like that. It is a site where you can enter your search fields on a particular matter. What a lot of people have found out and most likely the hard way. What should happen and what is thought to be reasonable. Is not.
Good luck.
I could only find one case on CANLII. And yes, we share custody.
Shared custody and access are different, custody doesn't mean access.
You're confusing joint and shared. We have shared custody which means we have joint physical AND joint legal custody of the children. It's split 50/50.
lol Im confusing joint and shared? No I think you maybe writing it wrong. Your original post said you had shared custody. Not shared access. There is a difference. You've just now clarified access.
Anyway. If your access is equal. Then what are your cs payments? The reason why i ask is that cs would be offset between the two of you. Unless your income is significant different your cs payments shouldn't be that much. If that is the case then asking for a reduction, would the ends justify the means?
Is it just me or am I missing or not getting something here?
The way I understand things. If mom and dad have equal access then cs is offset or cancel each other out. Unless one parents income is greater. Then the difference is made up through the difference using guidelines.
Yes / No anyone else here that has a different take?