My Ex and I have been to court for a few motions. I represent myself and she has a lawyer. I won the first 3 motions. I did not ask for costs as I did not have any. Recently, I lost a motion. Actually, the Ex's lawyer got the motion dismissed, she claimed I violated proceedure. We argued this point for some time. The judge agreed that the issue most be heard at a Case Conference before it can go to a motion. Opps. The Ex's lawyer asks for costs for $4000. I understand the loser pays for the other party's legal fees. However, the winner should not profit from the victory. The Ex's lawyer justified her claim as follows: $2500 to prepare an affidavit and $1500 for her time in court that day. Sounds reasonable. The judge asked me to respond. I apologized for the proceedural error. I added that the $2500 for the affidavit should not be awarded since the affidavit would be reused when this matter reappeared in the Case Conference and a refiled motion. The Judge ordered me to pay $5000. Why is the extra $1000? Is this allowed? Can I appeal the amount awarded? If the lawyer's expenses are $4000 why should she be awarded $5000 and make a profit. Who gets the extra $1000?