I am sorry to have to admit I am not sure what this BORG is trying to say.....is he a bad guy...bitter perhaps not sure but obviously has not read a single post of mine or any knowledge of my situation. which he doesnt have to....But just for him I will yet again say after being a stay at home mom 4 9 years, it was ME who bought him out if the MAT home in 2002....ya 10 years ago.It was me who didn`t ask for a dime in SS, and did eveyrthing imaginable to keep him involved as a DAD, even forgoing the one and only relationship I have had to apise him, and help HIM remain the one and only male fiquire in the boys lives. It was ME who helped HIM while he was in financial ruin, by letting HIM live in my basement.And it was him who met chicky and then 4 and a half years ago filed stating we had reconciled whole he lived in my basement and went after my second house,( I won that caz he was just full of BS and no PROOF) the home in which I live with my sons, the sons he berates and harasses constantly the older ones anyway and did this to prove to chicky something not sure what ..SO now baby momma and him have split (she is a piece of work 3 other kids 2 different dads) and he claims to live with his mommy.....he is 47, oh yea did I mention Baby Momma verbally abused my older sons.....so whilst in court I took the high road.....looks like big mistake...so While He claims to see his 2 yr old son over there at chickys house and spends every weekend there, since chicky abused mine the order states while he has my 13 year old he is not to bring him in contact with her or the 2 year old......Now heres another thought......my son will refuse to he is almost 6 feet tall and his bros are bigger and are quite the protector of him....So wise MS Judge has just set this up for a very very bad scene........family court what a joke.....and all for what 1 year of drama till little one in 14...so to you BORG get over yourself and do not judge me.....or do you expect like the judge does to for the rest of my life try to teach HIM to be a Father...cause I tried for like 13 years......when does he take responsibility.....
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Cynthia: when was the last year you filed your taxes together? What was/is your date of separation, including the year?
Abandon the "chicky/baby mamma" talk - it's irrelevant and obviously that relationship was not successful. He's in his mom's house - and the ex gf has his child to raise, plus a couple of others. That's her issue/problem, not yours. How long was your trial - and sorry (didn't go back to previous posts) - did you self-rep?
Disregard *anything* that BORG says - he's just an annoying fly that needs swatting periodically. Like a heckler. IGNORE.
Abandon the "chicky/baby mamma" talk - it's irrelevant and obviously that relationship was not successful. He's in his mom's house - and the ex gf has his child to raise, plus a couple of others. That's her issue/problem, not yours. How long was your trial - and sorry (didn't go back to previous posts) - did you self-rep?
Disregard *anything* that BORG says - he's just an annoying fly that needs swatting periodically. Like a heckler. IGNORE.
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was a 3 and a half day trial issues yes access,mostly which he doesnt show up for, we both had calenders, not entered in to evidence, and stuff he claimed to have left here, he had no receipts or proof of anything here or that he hadn't taken it himself, he claimed 11k, she ordered me to pay 3700.00.......with no proof it was here or ever existed....I cannot pay this at all.....does she expect my sons to go without......is there a way to file a complaint against her....she sited stuff the OCL recommeded which they had not like police enforcement for access...the OCL did not want this...and oh ya...what little he does owe me 2200.00....is to be paid to a counseler to help him learn to be a dad.......as section 7..the retainer quoted was 2500.00, so it looks like I have to pay it all mean while he denied section 7 to me all last year and only agreed to pay in court if I agreed to not tell judge he refused
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Sage words.
OK I'm starting to see why this guy gets a hard time. But he has a point. No one here can tell me that sometimes emotions rear their ugly heads - and mistakes are made.
Again - he has a point. He just sucks at making it in a PC way.
I just mean the system can suck hard, and has several bias' built in.
I'm sorry Cynthia. But again I point out - this is just the result now. You may well win the next round.
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Thank you...I just want as always to be strong for my sons and you are right...HE won a battle but the in the end, he cant handle the result...he is incapable of being a father and putting their needs first...he is a sociopath..and it is all about him...we will see in 10 minutes if he knows the order regarding my 13 year old...the older do...and holy shit....it was all I could do to keep them calm for now
so he doesn't know.......or maybe he does?????/ and will try to explain wow after only playing video games, and taking him to movies he is now going to attempt a conversation......My baby will be ok caz he is smart confident and able......I hope at 13 no Dad for 11 years sees his dads angle...his brothers are more of a father to him.....sorry venting.....
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