Hello all.
Im going through couples counciling as a last ditch effort to save my marriage but its not going well.
I don't know how common my situation is but we are not sexually compatible. She won't touch me at all and I have a high libido. It's been this way for 10 years. There are two things keeping me in the relationship.
1. My son Is still in high school and I don't want to have to disrupt is his last couple of years. Prior to that there was a death in the family, health issues and covid lock downs.
2. We have significant debt as a couple that is balanced(likely surpased) by the equity in our house. So for me to afford to live on my own we would need to sell the house causing issues with my son above.
it's reached a point where I am depressed all the time and just putting on a smile when around others.
I'm looking forward to being free someday or at least overcoming the depression.
Im going through couples counciling as a last ditch effort to save my marriage but its not going well.
I don't know how common my situation is but we are not sexually compatible. She won't touch me at all and I have a high libido. It's been this way for 10 years. There are two things keeping me in the relationship.
1. My son Is still in high school and I don't want to have to disrupt is his last couple of years. Prior to that there was a death in the family, health issues and covid lock downs.
2. We have significant debt as a couple that is balanced(likely surpased) by the equity in our house. So for me to afford to live on my own we would need to sell the house causing issues with my son above.
it's reached a point where I am depressed all the time and just putting on a smile when around others.
I'm looking forward to being free someday or at least overcoming the depression.