Common Law Separation assistance needed.

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Oh thanks BlinK, your so sweet--maybe if you had some of HIS money you wouldnt be such a miserable................................

And I do enjoy spending HIS money--too bad the legal system sees it as MINE!!!!! and too bad for you---want some???
 
Blink, I admit I took a few out and made it through this thred...... I am in no position to understand or make comment but I really did like your post - it lifted 50 pounds off my chest - and my first good smile in days!
 
momforever1956 said:
Oh thanks BlinK, your so sweet--maybe if you had some of HIS money you wouldnt be such a miserable................................

And I do enjoy spending HIS money--too bad the legal system sees it as MINE!!!!! and too bad for you---want some???
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I don't need his money or anyone else's, I actually *gasp!* work for my own. Foreign concept to you, I know, but you should try it some time and see how it feels. Perhaps then you'd develop a sense of pride and self-respect rather than spending all your time trying to make the world think you're awesome because you've got most of his money. Eventually the money will run out and all the people you've disgusted with your behaviour won't have the time or interest to extend even any pity your way.

You'll be broke and alone and still ridiculously trashy. Let's see how smug you are then, hmm?
 
Hmmm

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Drunky:

I'm curious here. If you don't have any means of financial support..how on earth did you afford the escorts? Aren't they pricey? Frankly, if I was supporting you and you were spending my hard earned cash on hookers, I'd throw something at you too.

When I was in University, I worked...for some time, I worked two jobs. My kid just graduated but she did the same thing while getting her degree, I insisted upon it. I've worked with plenty of people who worked full-time, had families, and went back to get their master degrees too.

Why can't you work?

It sounds like you both had issues during this relationship. She (may) have had anger issues (probably because she was supporting you) and you had sexual deviance issues.

I would chalk it up to a life lesson, give her back her toys (ie, the car), grab your bong and move along. Be fair, as it sounds you're trying to do and make a payment plan for what you owe her because unless you signed something for the loans, she probably isn't going to sue you. If she does, you can show the emails where you made her reasonable offers to pay her back. The small claims court would probably simply enforce those same offers.

You're grown...get your own car and you really need to see about modifying your school lifestyle so you can get some kind of employment because the reality is that there's going to be shortage of dentists willing to let you live off of them.

Good luck!
 
I have agreed to give back the vehicle once I am employed. I still require the vehicle for my studies as I am living with my parents, and school is 2 hours away.
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Does this sound reasonable to you? You want to use her vehicle everyday for a long drive then return it to her (so she can get it repaired since if i were her, I'd doubt you were paying for maintenance and upkeep).

I think you need to think about how you'd feel if the shoe was on the other foot here. There must be some other solution here so that you can give her back the vehicle which sounds fair and figure out another way to school.
 
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drunkmunky said:
I have agreed to give back the vehicle once I am employed. I still require the vehicle for my studies as I am living with my parents, and school is 2 hours away.

Thanks for all of your comments. I hope that I can continue to resolve this development in a calm and rightful manor.
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You're living with your parents. Get her back HER car and have your parents help you out. She's not your mommy.
 
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