Change of Name

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2 children, aged 4 and 8
Agreement in place, joint custody, approx 50/50 access

Mother is now petitioning the court to hyphenate the children's surnames.

They have had dad's surname alone for their entire lives - and are completely cognizent of this.

Mother has made repeated attempts to marginalize Dad, this is simply another ploy, original mediated agreement stated names would remain same, negotiated, court endorsed agreement states Dad's surname alone (less than a year ago) - Mother has unilaterally changed names at school, petitioned to court only when Dad contacted school to request change back.

Dad feels this will cause considerable confusion for the children, and is in no way in their best interest.

What are the odds of success in a hearing? Thoughts?
 
hi seekinganswers

hi seekinganswers

Quote "Mother is now petitioning the court to hyphenate the children's surnames. They have had dad's surname alone for their entire lives - and are completely cognizent of this."

In essence this doesnt hurt the child.......if they are to go away with the mother it makes crossing the border a little easier.......and it could be easier when they are at school........my last name and sons are two different names.......when my son brings home first letter from school they always question him who signed it and he has to explain that I did and his father & I are divorced.......the names are staying the same just one being added.......its not hurting anyone.........she cant just change the childrens name at school without legal documentation........Im not exactly sure why this would be an issue.......adding a hyphenated name for the children is regular practice for travelling and for parental reasons (as explained above)......its in no way a ploy to hurt the childrens father.......it is to simplify her life......I know I sound like Im taking her side but as a mother Im not......I have been there and done that.........it simplifies things.......the hyphenated name only appears on legal documents......the children are not called by both names......ie Fred Rubble-Flinstone......only Fred Flinstone......hope this helps
 
I respectfully disagree

I respectfully disagree

while I do understand where you are coming from Littleman, I am also a mom, and my children and I have completely different last names, and my kids have NEVER been questioned!

That said, I don't want to open a debate here, Dad is not going to provide consent, for a wide variety of reasons, and she is now going to petition the court, I just wondered what her chances of success were.

If anyone has been successful in having a name change declared to be "in the best interests of the children", we would like to know about it - and similarily, if anyone has been sucessful in stopping a name change, we would love to hear about that.

Thanks.
 
littleman said:
Quote it is to simplify her life......I know I sound like Im taking her side but as a mother Im not......I have been there and done that.........it simplifies things.......


I guess that's the point really, it complicates things for the kids (suddenly having a new name) and simplifies things for her - the best interests test isn't about "simplifying things for PARENTS", it's about the kids well-being!
 
No Debate

No Debate

the kids really dont have name change....just additional name........I misspoke when I wrote simplifies for her.......if she was to take them across the border for instance with the laws and the instances of parental abduction it wouldnt be as complicated.......nto saying that the children would be allowed without the parents written consent it would just be less hassle for all concerned.........I have considered changing my sons last name to mine however if look at the childrens birth certificates it has the mothers maiden name there........so legally no urgency to change their names......some children if asked may want their mothers maiden name though.....ifi she is trying to change to their names to new spouses name thats different for sure........
 
Just my two cents,

A child's name is an incident of custody and as such it should be made in the child's best interest. AT hand you have a Joint Custodial Regime by agreement.

When a child is born the Vital Statistics Act applies and the parent's cannot agree on the surname of a child:

Vital Statistics Act R.S.O. 1990, CHAPTER V.4


http://www.e-laws.gov.on.ca/DBLaws/Statutes/English/90v04_e.htm#BK49

Section 10(3)

How child’s surname determined

(3) A child’s surname shall be determined as follows:

1. If both parents certify the child’s birth, they may agree to give the child either parent’s surname or former surname or a surname consisting of one surname or former surname of each parent, hyphenated or combined.

2. If both parents certify the child’s birth but do not agree on the child’s surname, the child shall be given,

i. the parents’ surname, if they have the same surname, or

ii. a surname consisting of both parents’ surnames hyphenated or combined in alphabetical order, if they have different surnames.


So with that backdrop

lets look at the change of name act

Change of Name Act, R.S.O. 1990, Chapter C.7

Section 5(1)

http://www.e-laws.gov.on.ca/DBLaws/Statutes/English/90c07_e.htm#BK7


Change of Child’s Name

Application to change child’s name

5.  (1) A person with lawful custody of,

(a) a child whose birth was registered in Ontario and who is ordinarily resident there; or

(b) a child who has been ordinarily resident in Ontario for at least one year immediately before the application is made,

may apply to the Registrar General in accordance with section 6 to change the child’s forename or surname or both, unless a court order or separation agreement prohibits the change. R.S.O. 1990, c. C.7, s. 5 (1).



Consents required

(2) The application under subsection (1) requires the written consent of,

(a) any other person with lawful custody of the child;

(b) any person whose consent is necessary in accordance with a court order or separation agreement; and

(c) the child, if the child is twelve years of age or older. R.S.O. 1990, c. C.7, s. 5 (2).



I have read quite a few cases where the court permitted a hypenated name change to reflect both parents surname. Argument being is the child carries both surnames and can still be tied to each respective parent and originating registration of a birth of child under the Vital Statistics act permits same when parent's cannot agree on the surname.

In one case the court denied the name change in the interim, however without prejudice after one year.

Read this case

McLane v. Kilby, 2006 CanLII 2619 (ON S.C.)
http://www.canlii.org/on/cas/onsc/2006/2006onsc10234.html

Paragraph 14 and 15

[14] I am not satisfied that, at the present time, it is in the best interests of the child that her name be changed. She is now almost eight years old and has used the surname McLane since her birth. The marriage of the Mother to her present husband only took place some three months ago. In these circumstances, I conclude that it is premature for the Mother to proceed with her application to change the surname of the child to Lowe.

[15] An order shall therefore go restraining the Mother from proceeding with an application to change the name of the child for a period of one year. This order is without prejudice to the right of the Mother to proceed with an application to change the name of the child after that time, pursuant to the provisions of the Change of Name Act.



lv
 
logicalvelocity said:
I have read quite a few cases where the court permitted a hypenated name change to reflect both parents surname. Argument being is the child carries both surnames and can still be tied to each respective parent and originating registration of a birth of child under the Vital Statistics act permits same when parent's cannot agree on the surname.

Hi LV -

I have seached Canlii - and found 4 cases with "Change of Name Act", however, in all four of those cases, the change was denied.

In one case, Mother was allowed mobilty to JAPAN, but the name change was still denied!!!

If you could direct me to some where the change was permitted, I would be most appreciative!

In our case, Mom has had a different surname from children their entire lives, as parents were not married - this is a sudden change, the children are opposed to it (they are confused as to why Mom has started telling them she wants to change their names) - and there is no benefit at all to the children.

We have been working hard to minimize change and disruption in their lives, and sincerely believe that they shouldn't be subjected to something so big at this point.

We plan to fight her threatened petition, just want to know what we are up against.

Thanks again.
SA
 
SA,

I came across this case which referred to other jurisprudence. The hyphenated name change was allowed. It is good to read both angles to get an idea of the other sides potential argument to show WHY or WHY NOT it is in the best interest of the child for the proposed name change. Best to cover all the bases.

Vanderlinde v. Bohn, 2003 SKQB 503 (CanLII), (2003), [2004] 5 W.W.R. 398; (2003), 242 Sask. R. 264

http://www.canlii.org/sk/cas/skqb/2003/2003skqb503.html

and this case denied the name change

Lipphardt v. Chan, 2006 ABQB 511 (CanLII)

http://www.canlii.org/ab/cas/abqb/2006/2006abqb511.html

Paragraph 3

[3] The onus of establishing the best interests of the child is on Ms. Lipphardt. Ms. Lipphardt has not advanced either evidence, or even persuasive arguments, that Rebecca will suffer embarrassment as a result of her surname. Even if it were the case that Rebecca’s surname causes, or will cause, confusion and difficulty - an argument which the court treats with skepticism given the current variety of family formats within Canadian society and Canada’s multicultural values - the only interests which the court must weigh are the best interests of the child, not the convenience of the parents. Changing Rebecca’s surname would remove a formal link with her father while providing no compensating advantage; Ms. Lipphardt has not met the burden of establishing that this loss would be to Rebecca’s advantage

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but deals with the naming of a child at birth - Vital Statistics Act
history of legislation changes is discussed and reference to Trociuk v. British Columbia (Attorney General) 2001 BCCA 368 (CanLII), (2001), 200 D.L.R. (4th) 685

R.K. v. M.S., 2002 CanLII 44989 (ON C.A.)

http://www.canlii.org/on/cas/onca/2002/2002onca10313.html

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this application denied

Smalley v. Hoppe, 1999 ABQB 931 (CanLII), (1999), [2000] 257 A.R. 204

http://www.canlii.org/ab/cas/abqb/1999/1999abqb931.html

2. What factors should the court consider before dispensing with the necessity of the consent of a birth parent to a change of surname of a child of the marriage?

[8] In Wintemute, Sinclair C.J.Q.B. outlined the factors that a judge should consider on an application of this type:

- welfare of the children is the paramount consideration;

- the short and long term effects of any change in the children’s surname;

- any embarrassment that the children may feel in having a different surname from that of the custodial parent;

- any confusion of identity that may arise if the name is changed or is not changed;

- the effect of a change of name on the relationship with the parent whose name the child bore during the marriage;

- the effect of frequent or random changes of name.

[9] I accept those as the factors that I must consider on this application.


3. What is the evidence concerning the children’s best interests in this case?


[10] In this case, Ms. Smalley has presented essentially no evidence on any of these factors.


[11] However, the very fact that the Legislature requires the consent of Mr. Hoppe to a proposed change of surname for the children of the marriage means that the court should not dispense with that requirement lightly. As the court put it in Herniman: “I do not consider the change of the surname of a child to be an administrative act. Any proposed change must be in the best interests of the child.”

[12] Here, Mr. Hoppe has paid child support and is not in arrears of this obligation. This is a very important obligation of a parent; the fact that Mr. Hoppe may have been in error in deciding not to insist on access does not mean that he has abandoned his children or is uninterested in their welfare, or has withdrawn from them.


[13] In the absence of evidence of the situation of these children in particular, it is difficult to imagine that:

- the relationship between Mr. Hoppe and his children would be positively affected by the change of name;

- there would be any embarrassment on the part of the children in not having the same name as their mother, especially in this society where married women are frequently keeping their maiden names, and where there are so many blended families;

- there would be confusion by the children as to who their birth father is despite the fact that the youngest of the children was only one year old when the parents separated and 3 years old when his parents divorced. Undoubtedly, Ms. Smalley has explained to the children through all of these years that their father is paying $1,200.00 per month towards their financial support and that he has not withdrawn from their lives.


[14] Moreover, as Mr. Hoppe notes, the oldest child of the marriage is only a few months short of her 12th birthday and on that date she would have a say in whether her surname should be changed. Therefore, even if Ms. Smalley had presented evidence on the factors listed by Sinclair J., it might still have been appropriate to adjourn the application until after the oldest child’s 12th birthday: Herniman.



[15] The application is therefore denied.


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Court of Appeal Manitoba

Rattai v. Wyrzykowski, 2004 MBCA 155 (CanLII), (2004), 244 D.L.R. (4th) 765; (2004), 8 R.F.L. (6th) 333; (2004), 190 Man. R. (2d) 87

http://www.canlii.org/mb/cas/mbca/2004/2004mbca155.html

appeal denied.

To summarize, the party requesting the change of name has the heavy onus to prove on the balance of probabilites that it is in the child's best interest to change the name of the child.


lv
 
thanks!

thanks!

That's about what we thought - the onus will be on her to prove how this is possibly in the children's best interest.

Hopefully, the judge sees it for what it is - yet another petty and vengeful attempted powerplay attempting to diminish their Dad in their lives.
 
SA,

"Status Quo" is a very important consideration of a court when it comes to the best interest of a child.

When drafting your pleadings to support your stance, look for the potential arguments or reasons from the other side. Counter these with your own arguments. If you address their arguments up front it may have effect on the courts decision on the matter.

the party wishing the change has the onus to prove that the proposed change of name is in line with the best interest of the child, whereas the party contesting the change has the onus to prove on the balance of probabilities that it is not in the best interest of a child. There are good arguments and counter arguments in those cases, along with what the court will analyze. Get the jump on the other party address their stance by foreshadowing their argument upfront. Call it blindsiding or focusing in on the issue if you will.

lv
 
thanks so much lv!

thanks so much lv!

We have played the family court game with her in the past, but this is the first time we are self-represented - so all advice is certainly appreciated!!

SA
 
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