Okay- many of you know I'm a lawyer- but I'm a municipal lawyer. I'm just basically teaching myself family law right now without having to pay my lawyer for that advice.
I've informed myself about Federal Child Support Guidelines. Read through it, etc.
My ex recently told me he doesn't want 50/50 parenting anymore- he's just seeking EOW and Wednesday nights. I told him that's totally do-able [provided he completes his counselling and continues therapy] and in the matter of getting things settled- we can even do a yearly meeting with a parenting coach to assess how our daughter is doing on that schedule, etc etc (I'm open to it increasing).
Then, I asked him about what he thinks about starting to pay the table amount of child support? This is when he said "Well, if I have her every other weekend from Friday afternoon to Monday morning and Wednesday nights- I think that's over 40% and I don't have to pay, right?" News to me. I think it will depend on holidays etc...
But is that the general rule- if you have 40% of the nights per year- you don't pay child support? Is there a definitive guide on this?
I've informed myself about Federal Child Support Guidelines. Read through it, etc.
My ex recently told me he doesn't want 50/50 parenting anymore- he's just seeking EOW and Wednesday nights. I told him that's totally do-able [provided he completes his counselling and continues therapy] and in the matter of getting things settled- we can even do a yearly meeting with a parenting coach to assess how our daughter is doing on that schedule, etc etc (I'm open to it increasing).
Then, I asked him about what he thinks about starting to pay the table amount of child support? This is when he said "Well, if I have her every other weekend from Friday afternoon to Monday morning and Wednesday nights- I think that's over 40% and I don't have to pay, right?" News to me. I think it will depend on holidays etc...
But is that the general rule- if you have 40% of the nights per year- you don't pay child support? Is there a definitive guide on this?