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I used to allow things to get to me to, but I realized that unless you know me, and know the situation, then why let it bother me. Also do you value that opinion? Does the opinion come out of knowing you, and out of understanding your situation, or does it come out of having a glimpse in a situation that they really know nothing about? If you are allowing someone who knows nothing about you get you to the point of not sleeping, then your ex must really get to you. Have you thought about seeking help? I did that and have read some good books as well about how to deal with a lot of the stuff thats going on and it has helped. Maybe it would help you as well?
 
Gary M said:
Well, well, well. Have you ever heard the expression "hoist on your own petard?"

That report says that you and your ex are a couple of childish assholes that will stop at nothing to get back at each-other and that neither of you cares enough about the child to attempt to act responsibily. It says that you two nutjobs steamroll your poor kid while you're acting like kids yourselves.

The reason one of you was given sole custody is because you two can't get your shit together long enough to parent the suffering child together.

It just says all that in nice, official language.

You're a real piece of work, man.

Cheers!

Gary
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You have a point here, Gary.
But at the same time - why should custody default to MOM just because him/her/both of them can't see over their ire?

Who should win? MOM? Just because?
 
wretchedotis said:
You have a point here, Gary.
But at the same time - why should custody default to MOM just because him/her/both of them can't see over their ire?

Who should win? MOM? Just because?
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Gary M does not have point there. I described him situation in details and asked him what he would do? But instead he answered with some sort bla bla bla...

I also offered him link to my OCL report (even in the way it is you can see who created conflict) but he do not want it.

It's much easier just to call someone asshole not even trying to understand situation. Not everybody so lucky with ex moving away and does not want anything to do with kids...
 
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