Scenario
2012, S7 to be split near 50/50 as incomes are similar
2013, I start paying all S7 finances because ex is having money troubles
2014, ex runs finances into the ground and declares bankruptcy
2015, no more daycare being used
2015, both myself and ex in dual income homes but I'm still paying all S7 expenses for extra curricular activities because "she just doesn't have any money"
In 2014 I received a retroactive lump sum payment for contract renegotiation (present and future year income will not mimic this amount, but the CS adjust back to a lower amount will take a full year).
Moving into Mediation, this is the what she seems to have in mind:
She will not pay any Section 7 Expenses for extracurricular activities because she has no money, but she does expect me to pay the increase in child support ($80-$180). If I can't afford to pay for the activities "they just can't do them"
Result for myself and the girls: I cannot afford to pay %100 of the girls activities (amount to about $4000 a year) as well as the increased child support amount as again, a good portion of last years lump sum retro payment went to cover the activities and my PRESENT salary is far less than what my PRESENT CS amount would lend you to think.
I know that household incomes only come into play in rare occasions (undue hardship etc)....but is it reasonable that ex, living in a dual income home, who has ruined her finances is able to say that she will not, in any way help with activities but collect full CS? I
Note that the cost of the activities have gone up significantly, but they the intitial cost (approximately half of what they are now) had been agreed to in the original order)
Thanks, Trix
2012, S7 to be split near 50/50 as incomes are similar
2013, I start paying all S7 finances because ex is having money troubles
2014, ex runs finances into the ground and declares bankruptcy
2015, no more daycare being used
2015, both myself and ex in dual income homes but I'm still paying all S7 expenses for extra curricular activities because "she just doesn't have any money"
In 2014 I received a retroactive lump sum payment for contract renegotiation (present and future year income will not mimic this amount, but the CS adjust back to a lower amount will take a full year).
Moving into Mediation, this is the what she seems to have in mind:
She will not pay any Section 7 Expenses for extracurricular activities because she has no money, but she does expect me to pay the increase in child support ($80-$180). If I can't afford to pay for the activities "they just can't do them"
Result for myself and the girls: I cannot afford to pay %100 of the girls activities (amount to about $4000 a year) as well as the increased child support amount as again, a good portion of last years lump sum retro payment went to cover the activities and my PRESENT salary is far less than what my PRESENT CS amount would lend you to think.
I know that household incomes only come into play in rare occasions (undue hardship etc)....but is it reasonable that ex, living in a dual income home, who has ruined her finances is able to say that she will not, in any way help with activities but collect full CS? I
Note that the cost of the activities have gone up significantly, but they the intitial cost (approximately half of what they are now) had been agreed to in the original order)
Thanks, Trix