WorkingDAD
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And hindsight is 20/20 - none of us know in the beginning what were about to undertake. It's only once you're past it do you realize the financial repercussions. Also, I think if I show I'm willing to take it up the wahoo, it just gets worse. For example, I say 5, he says 8. So I say okay 8 and he says, oh crap that was easy, let me go for 10 now. Sometimes it never ends - depends on the ex. Isn't it funny that you realize you don't know your spouse until you DIVORCE them. Everyone thinks you can all be adults and reasonable and in many cases it's the exact opposite!
Actually you really will know your spouse ONLY and repeat ONLY after going through divorce... unfortunately that only way (