My case is finally finished.
We had an appearance for my motion for summary Judgement. Children Aid was supportive of my position. The other side didn't want it and was asking for an adjournment. I tried to fight the adjournment but judge granted it. After her lawyer came to ask me if I would settle.
So Myself, my wife, and children's aid, sat down and created an offer we could live with. Mom ended up accepting it for the most part.
I have Sole custody. Mom will be moving to semi supervised, and then to limited unsupervised access 1 visit a week for a few hours, and alternate sat for a few hours. If mom acts inappropriate, child makes any disclosure, or behaviours regress she moves back to supervised access.
Her signature has been dispensed with for all documents, and travel consents.
Mom does not get any special holiday time. I also have an order that if child's activities fall on mom's time visits can be missed but some make up may be given when available.
So for all the fathers fighting. I went from not being on birth certificate and limited access to full custody.
Our child is so thrilled and told everyone that works with her how much peace they feel now.
Mom has been more civil so praying this finally is at an end and we can be civil and peaceful for our child.
We had an appearance for my motion for summary Judgement. Children Aid was supportive of my position. The other side didn't want it and was asking for an adjournment. I tried to fight the adjournment but judge granted it. After her lawyer came to ask me if I would settle.
So Myself, my wife, and children's aid, sat down and created an offer we could live with. Mom ended up accepting it for the most part.
I have Sole custody. Mom will be moving to semi supervised, and then to limited unsupervised access 1 visit a week for a few hours, and alternate sat for a few hours. If mom acts inappropriate, child makes any disclosure, or behaviours regress she moves back to supervised access.
Her signature has been dispensed with for all documents, and travel consents.
Mom does not get any special holiday time. I also have an order that if child's activities fall on mom's time visits can be missed but some make up may be given when available.
So for all the fathers fighting. I went from not being on birth certificate and limited access to full custody.
Our child is so thrilled and told everyone that works with her how much peace they feel now.
Mom has been more civil so praying this finally is at an end and we can be civil and peaceful for our child.
