I guess I should have stated this was in British Columbia, I realize this is called Ottawadivorce . com but it seems to be the best forum I could find and has so much information.
Today I received a text from the woman I am separated from that she received the documents that I had a sister and friend serve on her, the text said she would agree to my terms and she would sign over all her parental rights and also leave my pensions alone if the monthly child support amount does not change. Currently we do not have a separation agreement and only a few court orders done, separated since 2011, and she has not made an attempt to try and visit our daughter since 2018. I have tried to ask her if she wants to move it along with a separation agreement and divorce in the past but get ignored. She also never shows up in court and refuses to meet with a mediator, and basically it’s her way or the highway and is a little unstable and hard to rely on.
With a set court date(this week) about enforcing a previous order to raise child support, and non disclosure of financial info, and now this paperwork I had served to her for a court date tbd yet, that one is about a few other things including passport application and the permission to travel letter will be coming up once a month of no reply to that paper work happens.
She seems to be a little more accepting now than before to an agreement, albeit under duress of not wanting child support to go higher than based on minimum wage. Maybe she could come back at me later saying she wants her share of the pension and made that decision in a financial stressfully situation at the time. I had a lawyer at the beginning of the separation to make sure I followed proper disclosure etc so later on ai would not be in hot water, I remember him saying the law here now pretty much says she can’t really give up her right to her share of my pension….he didn’t go into details but maybe he meant cpp. I can not afford the lawyer retainer or costs right now and I also can not use a layer provide by the government because I make to much money. I am saving up for costs to pay a lawyer to eventually help protect me and my future with final separation/divorce papers and hopefully I can make it cheaper by doing most of the work myself.
I went on a rant, but papers were served, she accepted them and is in desperation mode basically.