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Old 03-08-2018, 04:04 PM
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Then let her explain to the judge and have them tell her. My partners ex put in her briefs that he has refused many section 7 activities and wants a set budget for extras the kids may want. His income is 1/3-1/2 hers and the kids are in university. As his lawyer said, it won’t fly because it still requires his permission.
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Old 03-08-2018, 04:10 PM
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It’s adjourned sine die...so I have registered with MEP in the mean time, they won’t enforce anything anyways. We can either come to an agreement now based on the agreements we have made, or she can bring it back to court after receiving my response, which was filed yesterday.

She’s such a cow! I offered a $1000 budget per child for their activities...and that’s any activity - no consent required. She tossed it all and is now not paying her lawyer and back to harassing me.
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Old 03-08-2018, 04:11 PM
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My income is 80% more than hers...she makes $10,000 a year on disability and has our kids in high end sports.
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Old 03-08-2018, 04:54 PM
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Well good luck to her. Make sure you file her emails under her name and ignore. Text messages and calls ignore. Tell her that you would like all communication in writing going forward.
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Old 03-08-2018, 04:59 PM
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Doesn’t it make me look like I can’t co parent if I ignore her?
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Old 03-08-2018, 05:47 PM
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No. If you are ignoring unnecessary communications then you are avoiding conflict.

You say she is harassing you. Obviously those emails do not say “the kids will be ready at x time” or “kid wants to attend y event”.

If she harasses you via those emails you simply say you will not be responding to any emails that are disrespectful or inflammatory. Then you pitch our family wizard in any future motions.
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Old 03-09-2018, 08:39 AM
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My income is 80% more than hers...she makes $10,000 a year on disability and has our kids in high end sports.
So you make $18,000 a year?
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Old 03-09-2018, 08:47 AM
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Oops, no, I meant to say that was roughly my proportionate share for expenses. I should be able to have some say when I pay the bulk of expenses.
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