If I catch my ex still cohabitating (4 different addresses 21 months same guy) do I let her try to say she isn't in court and present evidence to the contrary or
do I file the motion requesting her boyfriend's financial situation. I would like to trap in a lie to discredit any of her testimony as opposed to just going after a reduction or elimination of spousal support. What evidence do I need for cohabitation I have them both at 4 different addresses together during their cohabitation. I don't want to reveal any more info as it may become too public and jeopardize my situation. DO I need an affidavit, will revealing my info during the settlement conference damage any other moves at trial if need be.
THe way I see it is our wage span is minimal $10-12000 gross ( approx. $120 per pay) I am helping my oldest with accommodation. She is 6 years younger, my health requires the earliest possible retirement. I I am able to use a 25% Tax rate on my pension valuation we are even on net family property. She is still cohabitating. Her wage will increase mine will decrease. I reduced my side of the net family property statement by giving her 75% of equity in home.
She did not 1) reveal she was living with someone in her case conference Net family property statement and income statement she left it blank. 2)She said during the case conference ( can I get a copy of the case conference transcript to refer to it in the settlement conference) that her relationship with him was not like that.....when her relationship was described as adulterous common-law relationship by my lawyer.
My questions are:
Do I need to fill out a revised net family property statement? (because I released the money to her just recently.) And is releasing the money from trust to her is that considered a written agreement between us.
Aside from answering for confirmation of attendance what other forms are necessary.
How long before the settlement conference should I file any motions or affidavits.
If I don't want child support for my oldest or I wish to state that if she drops her claims I will not file any claims for support when I retire with a reduced wage. approx $10000 gross below hers.
I hope someone understands what I am trying to do. We just prefer to be left alone so I can get my son finished and on to his own life. WIthout me he would be broke no address and living on a scholarship grant for another 18 months.
PS If my family or neighbours who have been supportive to me through this ever read this, I cannot thank you enough. TO the moderators and to this forum I sincerely appreciate everything you have done in way of encouragement and direction
Thanks from the heart,
Mcbroke
do I file the motion requesting her boyfriend's financial situation. I would like to trap in a lie to discredit any of her testimony as opposed to just going after a reduction or elimination of spousal support. What evidence do I need for cohabitation I have them both at 4 different addresses together during their cohabitation. I don't want to reveal any more info as it may become too public and jeopardize my situation. DO I need an affidavit, will revealing my info during the settlement conference damage any other moves at trial if need be.
THe way I see it is our wage span is minimal $10-12000 gross ( approx. $120 per pay) I am helping my oldest with accommodation. She is 6 years younger, my health requires the earliest possible retirement. I I am able to use a 25% Tax rate on my pension valuation we are even on net family property. She is still cohabitating. Her wage will increase mine will decrease. I reduced my side of the net family property statement by giving her 75% of equity in home.
She did not 1) reveal she was living with someone in her case conference Net family property statement and income statement she left it blank. 2)She said during the case conference ( can I get a copy of the case conference transcript to refer to it in the settlement conference) that her relationship with him was not like that.....when her relationship was described as adulterous common-law relationship by my lawyer.
My questions are:
Do I need to fill out a revised net family property statement? (because I released the money to her just recently.) And is releasing the money from trust to her is that considered a written agreement between us.
Aside from answering for confirmation of attendance what other forms are necessary.
How long before the settlement conference should I file any motions or affidavits.
If I don't want child support for my oldest or I wish to state that if she drops her claims I will not file any claims for support when I retire with a reduced wage. approx $10000 gross below hers.
I hope someone understands what I am trying to do. We just prefer to be left alone so I can get my son finished and on to his own life. WIthout me he would be broke no address and living on a scholarship grant for another 18 months.
PS If my family or neighbours who have been supportive to me through this ever read this, I cannot thank you enough. TO the moderators and to this forum I sincerely appreciate everything you have done in way of encouragement and direction
Thanks from the heart,
Mcbroke
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