after 3 years we finally have objective measures of income division
the judge adjudicate that we have been shared parenting with 50/50 NDI
To change this prospectively or retroactively will be tough, which is good for me
The raw numbers: (for the sake of argument, assume my numbers are correct)
EP 120-150K my way
Accounting of moneys (we had nesting agreement where she spent every dollar despite there being an agreement on this): 25K to me
Just call it down the middle and say this is 150k my way.
CS credit: 12-25k my way (likely 12 as I suspect she wont get retro imputation) (can be applied prospectively)
ss: credit 75k (again there is a range but its small and it would need to be adjusted for tax benefits I received)
Cost award from this last motion: I estimate my bill will be 40K...16 months of trying to adjuticate this
She has only 127K in trust from a house and future SS as assets. Only married x 6 years she has repartnered.
There is a mediation program through CAS that they made us do so now would be a good opportunity to try and settle this out.
She has received about 400K in the last 3 years between support and money from house and can't scratch 2 nickels together..spending problem. She will be hit with a huge CRA bill, lawyer bill, so she is not in good shape, and I only care about my kids..
I having been paying support for 3.25 years already. Would it be reasonable to to offer 50/50 ndi for another 15 months (4.5 years from date of sep) and then the last year and half is a rapid step down utilizing the massive amount of credits?
the judge adjudicate that we have been shared parenting with 50/50 NDI
To change this prospectively or retroactively will be tough, which is good for me
The raw numbers: (for the sake of argument, assume my numbers are correct)
EP 120-150K my way
Accounting of moneys (we had nesting agreement where she spent every dollar despite there being an agreement on this): 25K to me
Just call it down the middle and say this is 150k my way.
CS credit: 12-25k my way (likely 12 as I suspect she wont get retro imputation) (can be applied prospectively)
ss: credit 75k (again there is a range but its small and it would need to be adjusted for tax benefits I received)
Cost award from this last motion: I estimate my bill will be 40K...16 months of trying to adjuticate this
She has only 127K in trust from a house and future SS as assets. Only married x 6 years she has repartnered.
There is a mediation program through CAS that they made us do so now would be a good opportunity to try and settle this out.
She has received about 400K in the last 3 years between support and money from house and can't scratch 2 nickels together..spending problem. She will be hit with a huge CRA bill, lawyer bill, so she is not in good shape, and I only care about my kids..
I having been paying support for 3.25 years already. Would it be reasonable to to offer 50/50 ndi for another 15 months (4.5 years from date of sep) and then the last year and half is a rapid step down utilizing the massive amount of credits?
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