Franklin,
For what it's worth. It's been my experience that judges aren't stupid and see this BS on a daily basis. Most of the garbage that my ex and her lawyer spit out was ignored or easily viewed as "inaccurate". My ex hasn't won a case yet and perhaps the questionable tactics used has something to do with it.
You come out of these things feeling disgusted and dirty. In my case, I have joint custed and 50% shared access. To walk in there and be portrayed as this dead beat dad who is agressive and mean. When I've been paying child support and following court orders religeously.
For those of us with ethics and morals, it's tough to hear. Try to realize that it is just the way it is. I need to follow my own advice here, as it is morally wong and I also have a big problem with it.
For what it's worth. It's been my experience that judges aren't stupid and see this BS on a daily basis. Most of the garbage that my ex and her lawyer spit out was ignored or easily viewed as "inaccurate". My ex hasn't won a case yet and perhaps the questionable tactics used has something to do with it.
You come out of these things feeling disgusted and dirty. In my case, I have joint custed and 50% shared access. To walk in there and be portrayed as this dead beat dad who is agressive and mean. When I've been paying child support and following court orders religeously.
For those of us with ethics and morals, it's tough to hear. Try to realize that it is just the way it is. I need to follow my own advice here, as it is morally wong and I also have a big problem with it.
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