So I live common law right now for the past 4 years. We have 1 child together and she also has a 15yr old who lives with us.
She is absolutely terrible with money, so much so that in the 4yrs I am now over 10k in debt because of having to bail her out (bills, groceries etc)
I bought the house, all the down payment and all mortgage and tax payments have been only by me.
She is supposed to pay for daycare and buy groceries and also help out with some bills. but this is not happening. everything comes out of MY account such as the daycare, mortgage, car insurance, HER car payment etc. If she does not give me money on her payday my account goes into overdraft.
This is happening more and more now and I'm at the end of my rope. To me she is now just like a bad roommate.
I may need to end this misery for myself, but I need to know how bad I will be screwed over in the process.
I want custody of my son (but how often does a father get that?!)
The way I see it she has no right to the house or furniture or anything else I have purchased and also I feel like she should OWE me $$ for the debt she has put me in.
Is there a certain distance she can move from me if she has custody of my son?
I know child support would be in order but what about spous support?
Sorry for being so long winded but I need some advice here.
Thanks in advance.
She is absolutely terrible with money, so much so that in the 4yrs I am now over 10k in debt because of having to bail her out (bills, groceries etc)
I bought the house, all the down payment and all mortgage and tax payments have been only by me.
She is supposed to pay for daycare and buy groceries and also help out with some bills. but this is not happening. everything comes out of MY account such as the daycare, mortgage, car insurance, HER car payment etc. If she does not give me money on her payday my account goes into overdraft.
This is happening more and more now and I'm at the end of my rope. To me she is now just like a bad roommate.
I may need to end this misery for myself, but I need to know how bad I will be screwed over in the process.
I want custody of my son (but how often does a father get that?!)
The way I see it she has no right to the house or furniture or anything else I have purchased and also I feel like she should OWE me $$ for the debt she has put me in.
Is there a certain distance she can move from me if she has custody of my son?
I know child support would be in order but what about spous support?
Sorry for being so long winded but I need some advice here.
Thanks in advance.
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