How do Judges shut down the unreasonable and WHEN? How much can be done at a case conference? Settlement conference?
We are going into Case conference in a couple of weeks and lots of post say not much gets done here unless it is consensual. What happens when ex won't agree to ANYTHING? and simply ignores or shuts down any attempts to negotiate on ANY issue? I mean she will do what ever she wants and there is only 1 sentence of their poorly written separation kitchen table agreement. Stating they have joint custody and she has them through the week and 1 weekend. This is so non specific it causes strife for the last 2 years any attempts personal, through lawyers, through1 mediation session, through offers for arbitration, offers of coordination ALL ignored or denied.
She won't agree to a single issue (holiday access, long weekends, schooling, medical attention, scheduling activities, etc etc etc.) She unilaterally makes all decisions and then says "this is how it is going to be" after the fact. She balks at the notion that joint means anything and assumes she should be granted sole custody because she is the mom. She retaliates against us and against the kids if anyone disagrees with her all mighty decree of how things will be.
She has zero conscience and is hell bent on winning and power - this has nothing ever to do with the needs of the children.
She says out right she won't listen or negotiate on any issue until a judge says otherwise.
When and how quick is a judge going to say anything to make this a level playing field? I honestly don't think she'd even listen to a judge if it didn't suit her.
We are going into Case conference in a couple of weeks and lots of post say not much gets done here unless it is consensual. What happens when ex won't agree to ANYTHING? and simply ignores or shuts down any attempts to negotiate on ANY issue? I mean she will do what ever she wants and there is only 1 sentence of their poorly written separation kitchen table agreement. Stating they have joint custody and she has them through the week and 1 weekend. This is so non specific it causes strife for the last 2 years any attempts personal, through lawyers, through1 mediation session, through offers for arbitration, offers of coordination ALL ignored or denied.
She won't agree to a single issue (holiday access, long weekends, schooling, medical attention, scheduling activities, etc etc etc.) She unilaterally makes all decisions and then says "this is how it is going to be" after the fact. She balks at the notion that joint means anything and assumes she should be granted sole custody because she is the mom. She retaliates against us and against the kids if anyone disagrees with her all mighty decree of how things will be.
She has zero conscience and is hell bent on winning and power - this has nothing ever to do with the needs of the children.
She says out right she won't listen or negotiate on any issue until a judge says otherwise.
When and how quick is a judge going to say anything to make this a level playing field? I honestly don't think she'd even listen to a judge if it didn't suit her.
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