My wife is saying that because I claimed my stepson as a dependant on our joint tax return and because I named him as a dependant on my health beneifit plan ( had to because I was the only one working in the house and we needed the extra money, she refuse to work for three years to help me out), says that I attended my stepson at parent teacher interviews( this is a lie, she would never tell me when they were and would do her best to keep me from going to them), attended with my stepson at cadets, assisted with fundraising events in support of my stepson cadet group( this was because I was asked to do it by her, or she was too tired to go pick up her son at cadets, or didn't want to go do the funraising events which were required), and discussed the possibility of me adopting my stepson( this was said when my wife and I were newlyweds, my stepson said no, I dropped it and never asked him again).
I have a letter from a friend of mine that states he never saw a parent/child relationship, he states that my stepson would treat me like his slave and never saw me as a parent. My stepson never saw me as anything but the one who my wife married and even told me one time that he could get his dad to shoot my head off if he wanted to. His real dad is still around and even picks my stepson up and takes him out, its just his real dad refuses to pay child support.
What I need help is trying to prove this to the courts so that I won't have to pay child support for a kid that isn't mine.
I have a letter from a friend of mine that states he never saw a parent/child relationship, he states that my stepson would treat me like his slave and never saw me as a parent. My stepson never saw me as anything but the one who my wife married and even told me one time that he could get his dad to shoot my head off if he wanted to. His real dad is still around and even picks my stepson up and takes him out, its just his real dad refuses to pay child support.
What I need help is trying to prove this to the courts so that I won't have to pay child support for a kid that isn't mine.
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