It's been nearly 3 months since the separation, which will make the 90 day mark for changing my marital status w/revenue Canada therefore being able to apply for a different Child Tax Credit amount and Childcare Subsidy... although my ex is acting all weird about making the call to Revenue Canada for a change of address....
I spent a few wonderful days enjoying the summer with friends and family. I am really making progress emotionally! I disengaged from any arguing or discussions or phone calls with him and found I felt quite content.
We had come pretty close to having a separation agreement in place - he had gotten an apt. I was going to stay in the house for at least one year with our child. Yesterday he had an appt. with a bankruptcy trustee. He hasn't filed yet, but he wants to walk away from the house which has neg. equity - he actually would be able to keep the house b/c there is no equity.... he just doesn't want it. Part of me understands why he doesn't want to keep the house but... he came by after the appt. and said the guy told him to tell me to get my stuff out of the house ASAP. I don't think it works quite like that, does it??? He refuses to tell me who he is filing with. I said I would like to ask a couple questions, but I will just ask someone else in the business.
Also, he is telling me all of this total bullsh*t, for instance, I asked him if his new apt was a one bedrm or two (he's supposedly moving in w/ new girlfriend -claims he does not want to but needs someone to help him pay the rent- nice guy, good luck to her) (also the reason I am inquiring is b/c of our 4 yr old daughter) first he said it was a one bedroom main flr. house then he said it's a 2 bedrm apartment with a swimming pool, then says he had gone back to the guy whoever that is, and had him rip up the lease and that this guy is supposedly going to hold on to it for him til Sep. 1st, then he says he's considering moving out of town for work... then says he's not.... I find this very annoying, he is so insincere!!!
I spent a few wonderful days enjoying the summer with friends and family. I am really making progress emotionally! I disengaged from any arguing or discussions or phone calls with him and found I felt quite content.
We had come pretty close to having a separation agreement in place - he had gotten an apt. I was going to stay in the house for at least one year with our child. Yesterday he had an appt. with a bankruptcy trustee. He hasn't filed yet, but he wants to walk away from the house which has neg. equity - he actually would be able to keep the house b/c there is no equity.... he just doesn't want it. Part of me understands why he doesn't want to keep the house but... he came by after the appt. and said the guy told him to tell me to get my stuff out of the house ASAP. I don't think it works quite like that, does it??? He refuses to tell me who he is filing with. I said I would like to ask a couple questions, but I will just ask someone else in the business.
Also, he is telling me all of this total bullsh*t, for instance, I asked him if his new apt was a one bedrm or two (he's supposedly moving in w/ new girlfriend -claims he does not want to but needs someone to help him pay the rent- nice guy, good luck to her) (also the reason I am inquiring is b/c of our 4 yr old daughter) first he said it was a one bedroom main flr. house then he said it's a 2 bedrm apartment with a swimming pool, then says he had gone back to the guy whoever that is, and had him rip up the lease and that this guy is supposedly going to hold on to it for him til Sep. 1st, then he says he's considering moving out of town for work... then says he's not.... I find this very annoying, he is so insincere!!!
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