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Old 06-22-2016, 01:23 PM
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Would my girl friend potentially moving have any out come on my ex seeking spousal we have been separated since Sept 2014 and now she is seeking spousal.
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Old 06-22-2016, 03:27 PM
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The only time it comes into play is if your self employed and using the partner to lower your income (hiding income) or undue hardship is proven by your former spouse.
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Old 06-22-2016, 03:32 PM
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Sorry I meant to say she is moving in
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Old 06-22-2016, 05:03 PM
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Sorry I meant to say she is moving in
I would wait till your you get an agreement worked out with your ex. She may put up more of a fight when she realizes that you have moved on.
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Old 06-22-2016, 08:43 PM
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I would wait till your you get an agreement worked out with your ex. She may put up more of a fight when she realizes that you have moved on.
This ^^^. It will get ugly and fast.
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Old 06-23-2016, 09:41 AM
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Ya it sucks she has already gotten mad, she cheated on me and left me for the other man and now it hasn't worked out and now she is attacking me for spousal. why should my life be on hold when she left 2 years ago.
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Old 06-23-2016, 10:53 AM
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Your life should not! However, rushing into a relationship because your ex is banging someone else i.e. she is doing it, so am going to do the same thing, isn't a wise decision.

Rebounds always fail in most cases, and you need time to reflect on what really happened in your previous relationship, and make sure history doesn't repeat itself.

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Ya it sucks she has already gotten mad, she cheated on me and left me for the other man and now it hasn't worked out and now she is attacking me for spousal. why should my life be on hold when she left 2 years ago.
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Old 06-23-2016, 11:11 AM
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Its been 2 years, hardly rushing or a rebound.
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Old 06-23-2016, 11:19 AM
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Your girlfriend moving in might make your ex mad, but it won't affect her claim for spousal support. That's between you and her.
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Old 06-23-2016, 11:25 AM
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Thanks everyone , Yes I did spend allot time on my own and IC regarding this , My main goal was to help my children through all of this but it just doesn't seem to end, I wish she had the same attitude
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