Hi,
I need some advice.
I have been in a relationship with this women for 13+ years. We have a 10 year old son and she has a 19 year old son with another.
She has stress and drinking issues. She screams at me in front of the kids while sober and drunk. I know she was prescribed lorazapam and if drinking with them who knows what will happen. She speaks around my son at times of things(sexual) he should never hear. She is insecure and thinks of things in her head and believes the to be true and snapps out.
I realized a little over a month ago that I had enough. It was when I woke up at 4am to her punching me in the head while intoxicated. I didn't do anything until recently. I wasn't sure that I was going to call the police on her for assault (was adviced I had six months) until she came to me and asked me why I was here (matrimonial home) and that no one wants me here and that my son does not love me. I know if I left she would not let us see each other. I ended up calling the police again because while I was resting from my midnight shift she came in to my room screaming at me for calling the police on her. My son was home and once again witnessed this. Before the police came she left with my son and has not been back since. I have asked her to see my son and she says that I get nothing from her.
Do I need to get the police reports before handing in my custody papers to the court?
If I get a lawyer to represent me will I have a better chance?
If I leave this house and move in with my father(retired) to help pay a lawyer will that hurt my case?
I am seeking sole custody because there is know other way. She will continue to play games.
Please help.
I need some advice.
I have been in a relationship with this women for 13+ years. We have a 10 year old son and she has a 19 year old son with another.
She has stress and drinking issues. She screams at me in front of the kids while sober and drunk. I know she was prescribed lorazapam and if drinking with them who knows what will happen. She speaks around my son at times of things(sexual) he should never hear. She is insecure and thinks of things in her head and believes the to be true and snapps out.
I realized a little over a month ago that I had enough. It was when I woke up at 4am to her punching me in the head while intoxicated. I didn't do anything until recently. I wasn't sure that I was going to call the police on her for assault (was adviced I had six months) until she came to me and asked me why I was here (matrimonial home) and that no one wants me here and that my son does not love me. I know if I left she would not let us see each other. I ended up calling the police again because while I was resting from my midnight shift she came in to my room screaming at me for calling the police on her. My son was home and once again witnessed this. Before the police came she left with my son and has not been back since. I have asked her to see my son and she says that I get nothing from her.
Do I need to get the police reports before handing in my custody papers to the court?
If I get a lawyer to represent me will I have a better chance?
If I leave this house and move in with my father(retired) to help pay a lawyer will that hurt my case?
I am seeking sole custody because there is know other way. She will continue to play games.
Please help.
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