This is my fisrt time telling anyone about my story. I just joined and am looking for help.
Ok heres my story first before I ask the questions. My oldest daughter was born in 1995. Very happy day. I was single from before she was born. I tried to get her father to be involved with the pregnancy but you can't get blood from a stone. Anyways, For 8 1/2 yrs it was me as her only parent with the help of my parents. Then in Feburary of 2004 my mother thought that it would be a good idea to find her father and get him involved ( without my premission). They had their fisrt meeting ( again without me) a few weeks after the first contact. No body told me what was going on until after all was said and done. I was upset that my mother had done this without me involved at all but I stepped up and tried to be the bigger person. I was fine with her spending time with her father and everything seemed to be going good. Her father had asked me if it would be alright if she went and spent the summer with him. I tossed the idea around for some time before I said OK. Biggest regret of my life now. We had discussed him bringing her back before school started. Well as you might have guessed it didn't happen. He registered her for school with a DNA test. No legal documents. Not my permission nothing. Okay I will keep being the big person here and let it be for now. I told him she better be back when school ended and no more doing anything without discussing it with me first. Next thing I knew I had to make a mad move out of Alberta to Manitoba because my grandfather was gravely ill. ( he's doing a little better) I told her and her father where I was and she asked me to come get her and bring her home. Home to my kids is where mommy is. I told here I would talk to her father and go from there. I had talked to her dad and we had come to an agreement. The agreement was that she would finish off the school year there and that she come here to me for the summer and a school year and then we would talk about it again. He was fine with it. Oh yeah his wife was hit by a train when she was 16 yrs old and then about the end of feb hit by another vechical. My daughters father contacted me when he got home from the hospital from seeing his wife. When he told me about this I asked where my daughter was. He told me she was fine and that she wasn't in the car. Now heres where things get dirty. I got served Easter Sunday 2005 with custody papers. I went to court 3 times and got nowhere but my daughter having to reside with her father. She was here for Christmas and told me about things that had been going on at her fathers that she didn't want to go back and that she hates her father. No my Daughter is only 10yrs old and really wants to talk to the judge and tell the judge that she doesn't want to be near her father or here from him.
Now my questions are what do I do, what can I do and how do I go about doing it? Please if anyone knows what I can do let me know ASAP. Thank you
Ok heres my story first before I ask the questions. My oldest daughter was born in 1995. Very happy day. I was single from before she was born. I tried to get her father to be involved with the pregnancy but you can't get blood from a stone. Anyways, For 8 1/2 yrs it was me as her only parent with the help of my parents. Then in Feburary of 2004 my mother thought that it would be a good idea to find her father and get him involved ( without my premission). They had their fisrt meeting ( again without me) a few weeks after the first contact. No body told me what was going on until after all was said and done. I was upset that my mother had done this without me involved at all but I stepped up and tried to be the bigger person. I was fine with her spending time with her father and everything seemed to be going good. Her father had asked me if it would be alright if she went and spent the summer with him. I tossed the idea around for some time before I said OK. Biggest regret of my life now. We had discussed him bringing her back before school started. Well as you might have guessed it didn't happen. He registered her for school with a DNA test. No legal documents. Not my permission nothing. Okay I will keep being the big person here and let it be for now. I told him she better be back when school ended and no more doing anything without discussing it with me first. Next thing I knew I had to make a mad move out of Alberta to Manitoba because my grandfather was gravely ill. ( he's doing a little better) I told her and her father where I was and she asked me to come get her and bring her home. Home to my kids is where mommy is. I told here I would talk to her father and go from there. I had talked to her dad and we had come to an agreement. The agreement was that she would finish off the school year there and that she come here to me for the summer and a school year and then we would talk about it again. He was fine with it. Oh yeah his wife was hit by a train when she was 16 yrs old and then about the end of feb hit by another vechical. My daughters father contacted me when he got home from the hospital from seeing his wife. When he told me about this I asked where my daughter was. He told me she was fine and that she wasn't in the car. Now heres where things get dirty. I got served Easter Sunday 2005 with custody papers. I went to court 3 times and got nowhere but my daughter having to reside with her father. She was here for Christmas and told me about things that had been going on at her fathers that she didn't want to go back and that she hates her father. No my Daughter is only 10yrs old and really wants to talk to the judge and tell the judge that she doesn't want to be near her father or here from him.
Now my questions are what do I do, what can I do and how do I go about doing it? Please if anyone knows what I can do let me know ASAP. Thank you
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